I am super excited about being 70. Seriously! I'm about to go across the street with SIL and DH and have a mimosa on the beach.
That's exactly the kind of thing I was hoping for!
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I am super excited about being 70. Seriously! I'm about to go across the street with SIL and DH and have a mimosa on the beach.
That's exactly the kind of thing I was hoping for!
Happy Birthday, Laura! Enjoy that mimosa!
One thing I read about dealing with parents with dementia - it's not like children who you're trying to teach good behavior or ethical treatment or something like that. Sometimes it's just best to lie to them. It's not like they're going to learn.
I must say, it goes against the grain but there it is.
Happy Birthday Laura!
I had two mimosas!
Yay for birthday mimosas!
Of course, now I need a nap.
Happy birthday, Laura! Two mimosas on the beach and a nap sound amazing.
Yay birthday mimosas! I had Oj with some sparkling water in it, which is….minosa-esque? (It is not my birthday)
I guess what I really need is an extra helping of grace so that I can extend some grace to him and get through this to whatever might help him.
Maybe we can scrape together some grace and push it through the intertubes for you. But also: jesus fucking christ.
Shrift, barging in with the past 2.5 wk experience with stubborn ass independent parents
sarameg, wow that sucks so hard. I very much appreciate your advice. I've bookmarked your post and will be taking down notes to share with my siblings
Also, if you want a pulse/blood oximeter monitor
Thank you! I don't know if the one my mom got him buzzes at a certain threshold, but it also syncs to an app and the results from last night were pretty dire. I'll ask if the monitor has any functionality like the one your brother found while we keep trying to get him into a sleep study as soon as possible.