FWIW, my mother used to lie when it made a better story.
Hell, I don't know. If I had wanted schooling, I'da gone to school.
Jayne ,'Ariel'
Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?
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Toddson - Apr 18, 2024 7:22:57 am PDT #8096 of 8185
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"
erikaj - Apr 18, 2024 10:43:53 am PDT #8097 of 8185
Always Anti-fascist!
Well, there's that, which I guess I have done. But I think she is still trying to shape me in ways that are beside the point now.(Or maybe she just believes I do a lot more than I do white sitting here typing. Maybe I wish.)
Toddson - Apr 18, 2024 12:54:20 pm PDT #8098 of 8185
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"
There was also the fact that for just about all of my life, my mother made sure people saw me HER way.
erikaj - Apr 18, 2024 2:51:10 pm PDT #8099 of 8185
Always Anti-fascist!
maybe every mom does that, a little. (my grandma had a Problem in this department...not trying to say it's quite the same.) if my grandma had been kinder, or lighter or something, maybe it could've have been appealing or Using Her Life As Art the way that she was, like, "Begone, unpleasant reality, You have no shelter here," but people counted on her, sometimes. Also, when your grandma's life's a fairy tale, who wants to be troll? Right? (I edited. Sorry.)
erikaj - Apr 21, 2024 5:58:59 pm PDT #8100 of 8185
Always Anti-fascist!
Some guy online is arguing that his academic research proves women don't like oral sex. (A few of my friends have told me it's not a fave...literally, different...let's say strokes.) But I suppose I rubbed it in(and I don't mean porn) by saying that just because I've read a lot of whodunits it doesn't mean I could kill him and get away with it.
Steph L. - Apr 21, 2024 6:47:02 pm PDT #8101 of 8185
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated
his academic research proves women don't like oral sex.
Maybe he's just really really bad at it and unwilling to accept some instruction.
erikaj - Apr 21, 2024 6:51:08 pm PDT #8102 of 8185
Always Anti-fascist!
I'm thinking this.
Steph L. - Apr 21, 2024 7:19:39 pm PDT #8103 of 8185
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated
So his academic research was really just incomplete: "women don't like oral sex...FROM ME."
erikaj - Apr 22, 2024 2:39:07 pm PDT #8104 of 8185
Always Anti-fascist!
definitely a possibility...definitely he must be the last of the red-hot lovers to take his own history of, like. "That's okay...I've got a lot to do tomorrow," or whatever, plus whatever real research he may have done and make a statement about millions of people. Without considering that even those of us trying to live without shame have learned more about looking hot and/ or worrying about what's normal than what we really love. but at least he didn't report me for my quip about whodunits.
Toddson - Apr 23, 2024 6:32:02 am PDT #8105 of 8185
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"
Years ago, I saw a video of a man receiving oral sex from a woman and then from a man, to see who did a better job. He reported that the woman was better, which was nice to hear, but from that small a sample size, I wouldn't generalize. Sounds like this guy didn't have a sample size that was more representative.