Well, a gathering is brie, mellow song stylings; shindig, dip, less mellow song stylings, perhaps a large amount of malt beverage, and hootenanny, well, it's chock full of hoot, just a little bit of nanny.

Oz ,'Beneath You'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


erikaj - Apr 23, 2024 10:38:16 am PDT #8106 of 8185
Always Anti-fascist!

It would seem not. Can you imagine posting that? And that thinking your credentials make a better point? I can't, even though I share a lot.


meara - Apr 24, 2024 9:44:36 am PDT #8107 of 8185

Sounds like this guy didn't have a sample size that was more representative.

Plus I would really think that the overall range of individual performance is going to far outweigh any general overall difference in skill between genders. Not to mention the difference in what an individual might consider “good”!


Steph L. - Apr 24, 2024 9:57:53 am PDT #8108 of 8185
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Enthusiasm and willingness to take instruction goes a long way.


JenP - Apr 24, 2024 10:19:31 am PDT #8109 of 8185

There is just so much to unpack there, buddy. So much.


erikaj - Apr 24, 2024 4:43:02 pm PDT #8110 of 8185
Always Anti-fascist!

Yes. Definitely hope this isn't a movie scenario where I know this person and don't know it.


askye - May 14, 2024 7:42:01 am PDT #8111 of 8185
Thrive to spite them

What is it with men and there really bad hot takes about women and sex

Like the dude who was explaining that women shouldn't get wet when aroused. Or really wet. I think maybe he change this answer slightly.


erikaj - May 14, 2024 4:08:02 pm PDT #8112 of 8185
Always Anti-fascist!

To be fair, it can be difficult to talk about things you never witnessed.


EpicTangent - May 14, 2024 4:33:32 pm PDT #8113 of 8185
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

*snerk!*


erikaj - May 15, 2024 11:15:11 am PDT #8114 of 8185
Always Anti-fascist!

Well, thanks. The sad part is that if these dudes posted in the spirit of inquiry, Dan Savage or Dr. Internet, et all might be able to help. But they always act like, when they screw, they are really looking to disprove the Loch Ness Monster or go on mythbusters. (Not that there *isn't* mythology going around about that topic, of course.) But I think it's supposed to be loving(or at least fun)


erikaj - Jun 01, 2024 11:27:43 am PDT #8115 of 8185
Always Anti-fascist!

A friend of mine that I've known off-and-on since eighth grade wants to be in more touch(I don't, I think, mean porn, but she *is* hinting around about some Identity Revelations(as truthfully, when is she not? She is That Person, somehow, even if I kind of think we all should be...maybe not this much.) still not 100% sure that porn is *completely* off the table. We had a big fight during Evangelical Phase 2.0(she was being pushy and judgemental, I was too crushed-out on a guy whose feelings were elsewhere to be sensible...we apologized for that, and I got a real flash of what it might be like to be...idk, Jane Fonda's tween bff. Cause it's probably been twenty years and twenty phases.She's a good person and more fun than I make it sound,but sort of a...born convert. We were roommates during a tough time for both of us...should it be like, "We rode coal together," now. Do I have to share my phone number?