This here's a recipe for unpleasantness.

Mal ,'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Toddson - Apr 23, 2024 6:32:02 am PDT #8105 of 8185
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Years ago, I saw a video of a man receiving oral sex from a woman and then from a man, to see who did a better job. He reported that the woman was better, which was nice to hear, but from that small a sample size, I wouldn't generalize. Sounds like this guy didn't have a sample size that was more representative.


erikaj - Apr 23, 2024 10:38:16 am PDT #8106 of 8185
Always Anti-fascist!

It would seem not. Can you imagine posting that? And that thinking your credentials make a better point? I can't, even though I share a lot.


meara - Apr 24, 2024 9:44:36 am PDT #8107 of 8185

Sounds like this guy didn't have a sample size that was more representative.

Plus I would really think that the overall range of individual performance is going to far outweigh any general overall difference in skill between genders. Not to mention the difference in what an individual might consider “good”!


Steph L. - Apr 24, 2024 9:57:53 am PDT #8108 of 8185
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Enthusiasm and willingness to take instruction goes a long way.


JenP - Apr 24, 2024 10:19:31 am PDT #8109 of 8185

There is just so much to unpack there, buddy. So much.


erikaj - Apr 24, 2024 4:43:02 pm PDT #8110 of 8185
Always Anti-fascist!

Yes. Definitely hope this isn't a movie scenario where I know this person and don't know it.


askye - May 14, 2024 7:42:01 am PDT #8111 of 8185
Thrive to spite them

What is it with men and there really bad hot takes about women and sex

Like the dude who was explaining that women shouldn't get wet when aroused. Or really wet. I think maybe he change this answer slightly.


erikaj - May 14, 2024 4:08:02 pm PDT #8112 of 8185
Always Anti-fascist!

To be fair, it can be difficult to talk about things you never witnessed.


EpicTangent - May 14, 2024 4:33:32 pm PDT #8113 of 8185
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

*snerk!*


erikaj - May 15, 2024 11:15:11 am PDT #8114 of 8185
Always Anti-fascist!

Well, thanks. The sad part is that if these dudes posted in the spirit of inquiry, Dan Savage or Dr. Internet, et all might be able to help. But they always act like, when they screw, they are really looking to disprove the Loch Ness Monster or go on mythbusters. (Not that there *isn't* mythology going around about that topic, of course.) But I think it's supposed to be loving(or at least fun)