Some guy online is arguing that his academic research proves women don't like oral sex. (A few of my friends have told me it's not a fave...literally, different...let's say strokes.) But I suppose I rubbed it in(and I don't mean porn) by saying that just because I've read a lot of whodunits it doesn't mean I could kill him and get away with it.

his academic research proves women don't like oral sex.

Maybe he's just really really bad at it and unwilling to accept some instruction.

I'm thinking this.

So his academic research was really just incomplete: "women don't like oral sex...FROM ME."

definitely a possibility...definitely he must be the last of the red-hot lovers to take his own history of, like. "That's okay...I've got a lot to do tomorrow," or whatever, plus whatever real research he may have done and make a statement about millions of people. Without considering that even those of us trying to live without shame have learned more about looking hot and/ or worrying about what's normal than what we really love. but at least he didn't report me for my quip about whodunits.

Years ago, I saw a video of a man receiving oral sex from a woman and then from a man, to see who did a better job. He reported that the woman was better, which was nice to hear, but from that small a sample size, I wouldn't generalize. Sounds like this guy didn't have a sample size that was more representative.

It would seem not. Can you imagine posting that? And that thinking your credentials make a better point? I can't, even though I share a lot.

Sounds like this guy didn't have a sample size that was more representative.

Plus I would really think that the overall range of individual performance is going to far outweigh any general overall difference in skill between genders. Not to mention the difference in what an individual might consider “good”!

Enthusiasm and willingness to take instruction goes a long way.

There is just so much to unpack there, buddy. So much.