Gunn: We open a can of Machiavelli on his ass. Harmony: It's Matchabelli, Einstein, and it doesn't come in a can.

'Soul Purpose'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Apr 21, 2024 6:47:02 pm PDT #8101 of 8190
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

his academic research proves women don't like oral sex.

Maybe he's just really really bad at it and unwilling to accept some instruction.


erikaj - Apr 21, 2024 6:51:08 pm PDT #8102 of 8190
Always Anti-fascist!

I'm thinking this.


Steph L. - Apr 21, 2024 7:19:39 pm PDT #8103 of 8190
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

So his academic research was really just incomplete: "women don't like oral sex...FROM ME."


erikaj - Apr 22, 2024 2:39:07 pm PDT #8104 of 8190
Always Anti-fascist!

definitely a possibility...definitely he must be the last of the red-hot lovers to take his own history of, like. "That's okay...I've got a lot to do tomorrow," or whatever, plus whatever real research he may have done and make a statement about millions of people. Without considering that even those of us trying to live without shame have learned more about looking hot and/ or worrying about what's normal than what we really love. but at least he didn't report me for my quip about whodunits.


Toddson - Apr 23, 2024 6:32:02 am PDT #8105 of 8190
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Years ago, I saw a video of a man receiving oral sex from a woman and then from a man, to see who did a better job. He reported that the woman was better, which was nice to hear, but from that small a sample size, I wouldn't generalize. Sounds like this guy didn't have a sample size that was more representative.


erikaj - Apr 23, 2024 10:38:16 am PDT #8106 of 8190
Always Anti-fascist!

It would seem not. Can you imagine posting that? And that thinking your credentials make a better point? I can't, even though I share a lot.


meara - Apr 24, 2024 9:44:36 am PDT #8107 of 8190

Sounds like this guy didn't have a sample size that was more representative.

Plus I would really think that the overall range of individual performance is going to far outweigh any general overall difference in skill between genders. Not to mention the difference in what an individual might consider “good”!


Steph L. - Apr 24, 2024 9:57:53 am PDT #8108 of 8190
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Enthusiasm and willingness to take instruction goes a long way.


JenP - Apr 24, 2024 10:19:31 am PDT #8109 of 8190

There is just so much to unpack there, buddy. So much.


erikaj - Apr 24, 2024 4:43:02 pm PDT #8110 of 8190
Always Anti-fascist!

Yes. Definitely hope this isn't a movie scenario where I know this person and don't know it.