I am a large, semi-muscular man. I can take it. Don't hide behind Mal 'cause you know he'll shoot it down for you. Tell me.

Wash ,'War Stories'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Apr 24, 2024 9:57:53 am PDT #8108 of 8121
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Enthusiasm and willingness to take instruction goes a long way.


JenP - Apr 24, 2024 10:19:31 am PDT #8109 of 8121

There is just so much to unpack there, buddy. So much.


erikaj - Apr 24, 2024 4:43:02 pm PDT #8110 of 8121
I'm a fucking amazing catch!--Fiona Gallagher, Shameless(US)

Yes. Definitely hope this isn't a movie scenario where I know this person and don't know it.


askye - May 14, 2024 7:42:01 am PDT #8111 of 8121
Thrive to spite them

What is it with men and there really bad hot takes about women and sex

Like the dude who was explaining that women shouldn't get wet when aroused. Or really wet. I think maybe he change this answer slightly.


erikaj - May 14, 2024 4:08:02 pm PDT #8112 of 8121
I'm a fucking amazing catch!--Fiona Gallagher, Shameless(US)

To be fair, it can be difficult to talk about things you never witnessed.


EpicTangent - May 14, 2024 4:33:32 pm PDT #8113 of 8121
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

*snerk!*


erikaj - May 15, 2024 11:15:11 am PDT #8114 of 8121
I'm a fucking amazing catch!--Fiona Gallagher, Shameless(US)

Well, thanks. The sad part is that if these dudes posted in the spirit of inquiry, Dan Savage or Dr. Internet, et all might be able to help. But they always act like, when they screw, they are really looking to disprove the Loch Ness Monster or go on mythbusters. (Not that there *isn't* mythology going around about that topic, of course.) But I think it's supposed to be loving(or at least fun)


erikaj - Jun 01, 2024 11:27:43 am PDT #8115 of 8121
I'm a fucking amazing catch!--Fiona Gallagher, Shameless(US)

A friend of mine that I've known off-and-on since eighth grade wants to be in more touch(I don't, I think, mean porn, but she *is* hinting around about some Identity Revelations(as truthfully, when is she not? She is That Person, somehow, even if I kind of think we all should be...maybe not this much.) still not 100% sure that porn is *completely* off the table. We had a big fight during Evangelical Phase 2.0(she was being pushy and judgemental, I was too crushed-out on a guy whose feelings were elsewhere to be sensible...we apologized for that, and I got a real flash of what it might be like to be...idk, Jane Fonda's tween bff. Cause it's probably been twenty years and twenty phases.She's a good person and more fun than I make it sound,but sort of a...born convert. We were roommates during a tough time for both of us...should it be like, "We rode coal together," now. Do I have to share my phone number?


Karl - Jun 01, 2024 1:54:58 pm PDT #8116 of 8121
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

If you're having doubts about it, email is much easier to file away and come back to when you feel more capable of an appropriate response. So I'd say no, you don't have to, and youo should only share your phone number if you're enthusiastic about doing so, rather than just comfortable.

This is filtered through my own biases and prejudices, clearly.


erikaj - Jun 02, 2024 3:31:51 pm PDT #8117 of 8121
I'm a fucking amazing catch!--Fiona Gallagher, Shameless(US)

Thanks, babe. Maybe sometime, not right now, then,ETA: Kind of feeling like she'll go chase something shiny, anyway. Although I'm happy to share that I'm not upset anymore. Mom said maybe she quit drinking...maybe, actually. Although you can see where I get my infailable-hostess instincts from.