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'Out Of Gas'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


askye - Nov 08, 2020 8:09:16 am PST #7238 of 8208
Thrive to spite them

Well I'm at urgent care to see if I have a kidney infection. Minute clinic said this was too serious for them, apparently if you have flank pain they won't treat for uti.

The pain only started last night and I really need to admit how bad it was instead of trying to just act like everything is ok.

I called out at work and my supervisor was like "please take care of your self".

And my blood pressure was high so I have to follow up with my gp about that.

I really need to find a good GP near here. Guess I'll start asking around at work.


Laura - Nov 08, 2020 9:01:33 am PST #7239 of 8208
Our wings are not tired.

Please take care of yourself is excellent advice! Do that!


askye - Nov 08, 2020 10:42:57 am PST #7240 of 8208
Thrive to spite them

I do not have a kidney infection but the infection was working it's way up to my kidneys. I thought my pain was too low for that but anyway I have a doctor's note for work if I need it. Im currently in comfy clothes.

Today is M's birthday and I have had no idea what to get him .. and I've been tired.. so I got him a little "appetizer" birthday gift- a scented candle (he really likes those), Nerds, and a cat t shirt from Wal Mart. and Cheesecake factory cheesecake (from the Wal Mart freezer) for his birthday cake.


askye - Nov 08, 2020 1:05:41 pm PST #7241 of 8208
Thrive to spite them

The nurse at the minute clinic was worried about my blood pressure at the urgent care she didn't tell me what it was.

The first time she took it at the minute clinic it was super high and the second time it was around 120 something so I need to follow up on that.

Pretty sure my diet is the issue here and since M has high blood pressure as well we need to figure out how to change our eating habits. I know drastic change won't work so I'm trying figure out small changes


Steph L. - Nov 08, 2020 1:30:03 pm PST #7242 of 8208
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

The first time she took it at the minute clinic it was super high and the second time it was around 120 something so I need to follow up on that.

It's pretty common for the first blood pressure reading to be high and then subsequent readings to be better (it happens to me 100% of the time at the doctor's office). Definitely worth following up on, though.

Today is M's birthday and I have had no idea what to get him .. and I've been tired

I think having a UTI/almost kidney infection qualifies for a rain check for belated birthday celebration.


askye - Nov 08, 2020 9:21:37 pm PST #7243 of 8208
Thrive to spite them

Yeah my blood pressure is always high on the first reading. Or has been for the past 5 or 6 years. Doctor appointments especially the urology ones are still a pretty active PTSD trigger for me . I think the first reading was around 140 ish...and it has been getting higher.

I used to have blood pressure around 114 whatever at the drs office .

And I was scheduled to work so we were going to do sushi today so we will still do that tomorrow.


askye - Nov 10, 2020 8:02:59 am PST #7244 of 8208
Thrive to spite them

I know I've only had one full day of antibiotics and I know this is a bad uti but I am so tired. Not sleepy just tired. And my period started.

Work called and they shifted our shifts so I won't be working until 11. I already tried to take a nap but I can't sleep and yesterday I slept for hours , felt better and then got tired again. I have tomorrow off so maybe Thursday ill feel better


Cass - Nov 10, 2020 6:05:32 pm PST #7245 of 8208
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I’m glad you’re starting to feel better, askye. Hate UTIs. Glad it didn’t get to your kidneys.


WindSparrow - Nov 12, 2020 6:13:20 am PST #7246 of 8208
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I will try to be present here more. I love you all, my chosen family.


Laura - Nov 12, 2020 7:17:19 am PST #7247 of 8208
Our wings are not tired.

{{WindSparrow}} Virtual tackle hugs.