meara, bail. You don't need to put yourself through that. There's no reason to voluntarily put yourself in a situation that will hurt you.
Wesley: We were fighting on opposite sides, but it was the same war. Fred: but you hated her…didn't you? Wesley: It's not always about holding hands.
'Shells'
Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?
Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Maria - Jul 25, 2017 11:35:53 am PDT #1280 of 8239
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
sumi - Jul 25, 2017 12:30:05 pm PDT #1281 of 8239
Art Crawl!!!
I'm waiting for a bus. On my way to the bus stop a random person saw me with my loaded backpack and shopping case and asked if I needed a ride.i didn't but sometimes strangers can be the nicest people.
askye - Jul 25, 2017 3:06:52 pm PDT #1282 of 8239
Thrive to spite them
If you can bail then do that. Take care of yourself.
Laura - Jul 25, 2017 3:13:18 pm PDT #1283 of 8239
Our wings are not tired.
I agree completely on bailing. Last moment, can't do it, migraine. Or friend emergency, I'll be an alibi. I was distraught, you got caught up on the phone with me. Don't like those, we can give you dozens more outs.
meara - Jul 25, 2017 3:29:18 pm PDT #1284 of 8239
Yeah, I may go with migraine--all our good friends will be there. And it sucks extra because it sounds like lots of fun--a cabin, a lake, a hot tub...but...
Laura - Jul 25, 2017 3:49:50 pm PDT #1285 of 8239
Our wings are not tired.
It is only fun if it is fun for you. I'm sorry this is so hard.
Also, as an aside, when I first read the post my eyes saw msbelle instead of meara, and I wondered how I missed that msbelle was into women, then re-read. Well, I was amused.
smonster - Jul 25, 2017 4:49:12 pm PDT #1286 of 8239
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
I'm sorry, meara. I vote for self care by bailing in this case.
meara - Jul 25, 2017 4:57:54 pm PDT #1287 of 8239
Lol! Msbelle, wanna expand your opportunities? Join the wide world of dating women!
Laura - Jul 25, 2017 5:19:37 pm PDT #1288 of 8239
Our wings are not tired.
With no real life experience and relying only on observation, it would appear that dating women is as annoying as dating men. Also assuming that there are offsetting pluses.
meara - Jul 25, 2017 5:31:50 pm PDT #1289 of 8239
I can't really speak to the differences, having only really dated women. But I'll admit it's not a walk in the park.