It is only fun if it is fun for you. I'm sorry this is so hard.
Also, as an aside, when I first read the post my eyes saw msbelle instead of meara, and I wondered how I missed that msbelle was into women, then re-read. Well, I was amused.
Lorne: Once the word spreads you beat up an innocent old man, well, the truly terrible will think twice before going toe-to-toe with our Avenging Angel. Spike: Yes. The geriatric community will be soiling their nappies when they hear you're on the case. Bravo.
'The Cautionary Tale of Numero Cinco'
Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?
Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Laura - Jul 25, 2017 3:49:50 pm PDT #1285 of 8208
Our wings are not tired.
smonster - Jul 25, 2017 4:49:12 pm PDT #1286 of 8208
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
I'm sorry, meara. I vote for self care by bailing in this case.
meara - Jul 25, 2017 4:57:54 pm PDT #1287 of 8208
Lol! Msbelle, wanna expand your opportunities? Join the wide world of dating women!
Laura - Jul 25, 2017 5:19:37 pm PDT #1288 of 8208
Our wings are not tired.
With no real life experience and relying only on observation, it would appear that dating women is as annoying as dating men. Also assuming that there are offsetting pluses.
meara - Jul 25, 2017 5:31:50 pm PDT #1289 of 8208
I can't really speak to the differences, having only really dated women. But I'll admit it's not a walk in the park.
billytea - Jul 25, 2017 5:39:14 pm PDT #1290 of 8208
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.
I can't really speak to the differences, having only really dated women. But I'll admit it's not a walk in the park.
Having dated women on numerous occasions, I would like to mention that I have had some dates which were indeed a walk in the park.
smonster - Jul 25, 2017 6:01:54 pm PDT #1291 of 8208
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Have dated both and yes, Laura is correct.
Ghost Boy is back. Kind of. I don't know. We're both very confused.
Gudanov - Jul 25, 2017 6:37:05 pm PDT #1292 of 8208
Coding and Sleeping
it would appear that dating women is as annoying as dating men
I've always had a suspicion that women where basically just people too.
Maria - Jul 25, 2017 6:40:48 pm PDT #1293 of 8208
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
Ghost Boy is back. Kind of. I don't know. We're both very confused.
Ugh. I'm sorry.
I'm beginning to think that dating is not worth it. Sell the house here, move closer to a Buffista-rich area, and just enjoy whatever time I have left. Or just travel until the money runs out.
Liese S. - Jul 25, 2017 7:50:49 pm PDT #1294 of 8208
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
I'm definitely not dating for a bit. Maybe six months? But that would put me starting in cuffing season. So maybe eight months? Spring?
But yeah, smonster, I hate that shit. Why can't they be simpler? Everyone says guys are simple, but, like, no.
The former SO provided some excellent emotional support for me, which I feel bad about needing and taking, but man was it helpful.