Oh, whoops, were you talking about your scalp in Natter? Dur. Glad it's stopped bleeding.

Not Jilli, but if she doesn't want the teal, I'd love it.

Dear supervisor, generally you are made of awesome, but please ask me about what we have going on before you schedule my crew. Ta, ever so.

Frankie seems to be doing okay. The pain meds make his ears droop funny. I was running late this morning and couldn't get the Collar of Shame on him, but I haven't seen him try and lick yet, so let's hope he doesn't.

If Jilli doesn't want the teal, it's yours, smonster.

Collar of Shame -- makes you sound like a Doganatrix.

x-post from Minearverse:

Just saw on Democracy Now - one of the signs at Occupy Wall Street yesterday: "Curse your sudden but inevitable betrayal."

I just got an e-mail from I guy I was seeing 10 years ago, pre-mastectomy, pre-the last 50 pounds, who's going to be in town next month and wants to "catch up." He moved back to California and we lost touch, so he knows nothing about the cancer, et al. I am filled with terror and indecision.

Are your memories of him good overall? If you still consider him someone you are on friendly terms with, don't let body image demons stop you from seeing him.

I have not yet coped with the idea of someone seeing a long scar where the breasts used to be. I have been avoidy.

Ginger,

I think I am being obtuse. How would he see the scar? Or are you thinking of possible sexytimes?

Well, there used to be sexytimes.

I understand your hesitation, Ginger. If this is someone you have good feelings about I would go ahead and see him to catch up. Who knows what stuff he has dealt with the last 10 years. You will have a better feeling about how much you want to discuss when you actually see him.

Are whether to see him and whether to have sex with him the same issue? Can you see him, and put off the issue of sexytimes until you see how you click today, which may not be the same as then?