Are whether to see him and whether to have sex with him the same issue? Can you see him, and put off the issue of sexytimes until you see how you click today, which may not be the same as then?
Willow, check you out! Witch-Fu!
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Typo Boy - Oct 10, 2011 8:38:28 am PDT #930 of 30001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
Maria - Oct 10, 2011 8:38:33 am PDT #931 of 30001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
Ginger, did you get the impression from his message that "catch up" = "sexytimes"? He may not be in that place any more, and might just want to see you and how you're doing platonically.
You get to decide how you want to interact. If you'd like to have dinner with him, go for it. If you're not ready for sexytimes, that's something that's totally up to you and he has to live with it.
Edit: Personal choice x-post FTW!
le nubian - Oct 10, 2011 8:39:38 am PDT #932 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
I agree with TB. I would find the decision to meet him for a drink or something much less overwhelming than sexytimes.
Atropa - Oct 10, 2011 9:19:58 am PDT #933 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
If Jilli doesn't want the teal, it's yours, smonster.
Teal is not a Jilli color, so it should go to smonster!
Ginger, I think you should meet him for a drink or coffee. Catching up is good, and you can decide if you want things to go farther.
You guys! Today is my tattoo consultation appointment! And if the tattooist has the time, I may get it done today.
Burrell - Oct 10, 2011 9:53:15 am PDT #934 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Go tattoo!
Strix - Oct 10, 2011 10:16:55 am PDT #935 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
Go, tat! I WILL have a new one within the next year -- for my 40th bday, if nothing else.
And smonster, I'll send the teal shadow to ya tomorrow. You haven't moved yet, right?
SuziQ - Oct 10, 2011 10:19:08 am PDT #936 of 30001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
I got my back tat for my 40th birthday. I say go for it Erin!
Go Jilli. Looking forward to pictures.
Strix - Oct 10, 2011 10:23:04 am PDT #937 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
I have three tatas (HA! leaving THAt typo in!) and I want a wrist tat. I'd love to add to the other tats, but I want the wrist tat first.
Atropa - Oct 10, 2011 10:45:06 am PDT #938 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
I have the three bats on my left forearm, the woman's face in ivy above my left breast, and the huge tribal fairy wings across my shoulders. The tattoo I'm getting in the next two weeks is "Get out of your own way" on my right forearm.
Then in Jan/Feb, the memorial tattoo for my Mom.
smonster - Oct 10, 2011 11:41:44 am PDT #939 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Haven't moved yet, nope! I'm going to go home tonight and see what I've got to lend/give you.
Ginger, I agree with the others. Figure out first if you want to see him, and go from there.
Yay, tattoos! I need to find an artist down here, but it'll be a long time before I can afford one, sadly. I don't know which one of the four I have planned I'd get first; owl, fleur de lis, luna moth, oak tree. Possibly the luna moth, just because I know exactly what I want and where. Just need to find an artist who can do photorealistic fauna in color.