Now I did a job. I got nothing but trouble since I did it, not to mention more than a few unkind words as regard to my character so let me make this abundantly clear. I do the job. And then I get paid.

Mal ,'Serenity'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Hil R. - Jan 09, 2013 5:07:16 pm PST #24801 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I'd definitely be getting a smallish dog (30 pounds or so or less), and probably not a puppy.


meara - Jan 09, 2013 6:59:46 pm PST #24802 of 30001

I hate people. and yet I fear that I am the common denominator here. no one likes me enough to love me. i'm going to die alone.


DavidS - Jan 09, 2013 7:18:04 pm PST #24803 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I hate people. and yet I fear that I am the common denominator here. no one likes me enough to love me. i'm going to die alone.

Awww. What prompted this?

What do you want a relationship to be?

I know that personally I'm a better person when I have a focus for my love. That when I'm giving I'm my better self. So I've always preferred being in relationships.

I guess I'm just wondering how you feel when you are in a relationship. What do you expect to get from your partner?


Burrell - Jan 09, 2013 7:21:31 pm PST #24804 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I'm sorry you're having a bad day, meara. But I must disagree with you. I've met you and you are quite lovable. If you are the common denominator, then the issue is not whether or not you are lovable, but perhaps whether or not you place a high enough value on loving you back before you let yourself get attached to someone.


meara - Jan 09, 2013 7:21:57 pm PST #24805 of 30001

I just fucking want someone to love. who will also want to fuck me. and vice versa. and I can't seem to find that. no one i want likes me.


meara - Jan 09, 2013 7:22:44 pm PST #24806 of 30001

i've never even dated someone more than 6 months before we broke up. even people who are serial fucking monogamists. who marry like, three times. i don't even know.


DavidS - Jan 09, 2013 7:24:34 pm PST #24807 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Loving and fucking are definitely two of the better things to have in a relationship.

As one of my exes noted, "The fucking better be good or why bother? You might as well be friends."


Burrell - Jan 09, 2013 7:24:51 pm PST #24808 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I wish I was there to administer chocolate and maybe a glass of wine, meara.


Hil R. - Jan 09, 2013 7:33:33 pm PST #24809 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I'm sorry you're having a bad day, meara. But I must disagree with you. I've met you and you are quite lovable.

I agree with this.


meara - Jan 09, 2013 7:34:04 pm PST #24810 of 30001

somehow, no one who actually has to date me believes that.