Where are you getting that?
From everybody saying how skeeved they were by interracial porn. It's such a common kink and I don't think you can impute the racism in it.
As for judgy, I am judgy about the racism I think is inherent in the interracial cuckolding kink
...though you disagree. Is a preference for latino men, or asian women equally skeevy? I just don't think the myriad of associations that go into any individuals sexuality need to pass that kind of scrutiny. I don't think every white woman into black men has Jungle Fever (sorry, Spike).
Half your point is defensiveness,
I threw that in there. But mostly because there are a lot of outlier sexual interests on this board that wouldn't pass somebody else's skeeve test. So my philosophy is not to be so judgy about what floats a boat.
Different people like different shit and you can't presume to know why.
That's really not the dynamic I've encountered in the interracial cuckolding. The husbands seem to be fairly often in chastity belts undergoing orgasm denial, and they do participate, in order to clean up after where the black guy just went.
Huh, that's a new one on me. Something that specific is common enough to be a big new trend? (Admittedly it's not as if I go looking into the details of straight sexuality much; I'm still mystified by the KISS style heels that are apparently such a turn on.)
From everybody saying how skeeved they were by interracial porn.
Interracial isn't the skeeve. It's the cuckolding of a white guy by a specifically black guy. For me.
They've got a right to get their yayas there so long as it's all of age and consensual, but, yeah, I find it totally skeevy and I judge them.
I also judge people with swastika tattoos. They've got the right. But I judge.
Is a preference for latino men, or asian women equally skeevy?
In the cuckolding kink, or in general? I don't know how they'd work Asian women into it, although I can imagine Latino men slotting into a similar position, but without the historical trappings of animal sexuality, so it wouldn't translate particularly well.
For the record, nobody said they were uncomfortable with interracial porn but me. So it's me you're talking to with the first part of the statement. And I haven't defended any of my kinks, so it's not me you're talking to with the second statement. So I'm not sure why you strung them together like it's one position being held by anyone here. Or why you didn't just call me out and leave everyone else out of it.
And, yeah, as long as porn makes me feel objectified, I'm going to feel uncomfortable. I think that's perfectly reasonable behaviour.
But not objectified just as a woman? Because doesn't porn with women in it generally do that?
I don't mind if someone wants to have sex with me because I'm female. I do mind if they want to because I'm black.
That's fair. I think that's different than objectification.
If someone wants to have sex with me because I'm black, I feel objectified. That doesn't make sense? What word would you use?
