Gris, I'd share some of the Buffista posts here
I shall. Though I may just send her the text as "something I found on the internet" rather than be like "I was totally talking about you on the internets and this is what they said k?"
I do get the pressure thing Vortex, but it's rather a fine line. If I try not to try, then I risk actually, you know, not trying.
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[Never mind. Really bad buyer feedback.]
I do get the pressure thing Vortex, but it's rather a fine line. If I try not to try, then I risk actually, you know, not trying.
I know, and it's so great that you want to try. or not try. or something :) Just something to keep in mind. I have every confidence that you'll handle it well, but i'm trying to avoid a situation like I had, where I burst into tears and apologized for 30 minutes, and he was very confused. Poor boy. I should google him.
I do get the pressure thing Vortex, but it's rather a fine line. If I try not to try, then I risk actually, you know, not trying.
I think that if you present it as a "let's help you explore your body and how it reacts" with a focus that's about pleasure and company and consicously away from I Order You To Come! then it will be fine.
Not that you were ordering her to come, it was just funny to write.
"You! Get to work on that orgasm. I thought I ordered you to come fifteen minutes ago!"
::harried looking girl looks up with anxious look on her face::
Poor boy. I should google him.
Diet Pepsi... on... my... monitor. Don't know why.
I think that if you present it as a "let's help you explore your body and how it reacts" with a focus that's about pleasure and company and consicously away from I Order You To Come! then it will be fine.
It wasn't about ordering at all, just that I am a giver when it comes to sex, and it upset me that I couldn't give him what he wanted, which was for me to experience this wonderful thing.
Bad buyer feedback where? The seller has over 95% approval.
Damn, that's a hot dress. I do not have a leather dress. And I realise I may also not have leather pants anymore. Should be redressed.
We know that you're trying to be there for her, but back in the day, I still felt pressure even when my partner was doing handstands and swinging from trees to make it happen for me. I felt like I was disappointing him because he wanted so badly for me to have this.
Yeah, it takes a fair amount of effort for me to have an orgasm, and so on the hell-freezes-over occasions that I do have sex, I'm always massively apologetic, in a pre-emptive way, b/c I don't want the guy to feel like a loser for not making me burst into song like Madeleine Kahn in Young Frankenstein.
"You! Get to work on that orgasm. I thought I ordered you to come fifteen minutes ago!"
Though that works for *some* people.... (Not that I'm implying that Gershwin Girl is such a person.)
Yes, ita, but a lot of the 5% have to do with "item never shipped", "item not as pictured", and one even says the item arrived ripped.
I'd almost take the risk for those odds.