I've really got to learn to just do the damage and get out of town. It's the 'stay and gloat' that gets me every time.

Ethan Rayne ,'Potential'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Karl - May 06, 2021 5:59:30 pm PDT #6159 of 30000
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

Thanks, Laura. This year as every year, I'm grateful to share my birthday with the great Willie Mays, who turns 90 today.

It's been quiet this year, which I am beyond ok with. As Ann Leckie says (and I believe it was in amyparker's tagline at one point): "It's only ever been one step and then the next."

I love you all, even if I'm a lot less demonstrative about it than I was at one time.


Topic!Cindy - May 06, 2021 6:19:01 pm PDT #6160 of 30000
What is even happening?

Happy Birthday, Karl. Nice to see you.


Karl - May 06, 2021 6:33:53 pm PDT #6161 of 30000
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

Thanks, Cindy. What a year, eh?


Matt the Bruins fan - May 06, 2021 6:49:15 pm PDT #6162 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Toddson, that reminds me of this old sketch from The Edge.


Steph L. - May 06, 2021 6:56:14 pm PDT #6163 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

So, we have someone coming tomorrow from a company called Cincinnati Hoarding to assess the situation. So that’s where my fucking life is right now. I feel like a goddamn shitshow failure of a human being.


-t - May 06, 2021 7:33:04 pm PDT #6164 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

You are a perfectly fine human being, Tep. I’m sorry this feels so terrible.


DavidS - May 06, 2021 8:06:30 pm PDT #6165 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

You are a perfectly fine human being, Tep.

This is true. You know what's good? Getting some help in a situation like this.

Put aside your reflexive shame-response, and see that this is part of the process of fixing the situation. It's almost like seeing a therapist. And alleviating it going forward. It's going to be okay.


Sophia Brooks - May 07, 2021 4:54:42 am PDT #6166 of 30000
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

When my people came, they were so nice! I was a wreck, though.


JenP - May 07, 2021 6:10:28 am PDT #6167 of 30000

I empathize with the feeling, truly. I admire you for doing something hard about a situation you know you want to fix when taking the fixing steps makes you feel shitty, too. And for talking about it - because we all (or mostly all?) have albatrosses of some kind, and seeing someone else handle theirs is... aspirational!


Laura - May 07, 2021 6:42:49 am PDT #6168 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Sounds like some first rate humaning, with a side of adulting there, Teppy!

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