Can't even shout, Can't even cry. The Gentlemen are coming by. Looking in windows, knocking on doors. They need to take seven, and they might take yours. Can't call to mom, can't say a word. You're gonna die screaming but you won't be heard.

Dream Girl ,'Bring On The Night'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


meara - Apr 16, 2024 8:32:08 am PDT #29796 of 30000

Go Tom! I did manage to finally do an send in the at home test a few days ago, so should know in a couple weeks if I also have to do one.

David, go run! Then when there’s a bad weather day you can say “well I did that run on the nice day so I can sit this out”


juliana - Apr 16, 2024 8:45:46 am PDT #29797 of 30000
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Yes, go run! I did strength-training & cardio this morning, because I have appointments after Peanut's dropoff (when I would usually run).


EpicTangent - Apr 16, 2024 9:27:34 am PDT #29798 of 30000
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Glad to hear the positive (or not-positive) results, dcp!

Happiest of Birthdays to ND!

I need to make sure I get in a walk or two today. The other night traipsing around the theatre & then making our way to the Stage Door really re-emphasized how much strength & stamina I've lost. I think in the back of my head I've been telling myself, "When I get better I'll get strong again," and I've allowed myself to be rather a slacker. Well, if I'm not going to actually get all-the-way well again, then I guess there's no time like the present to work on getting as much strength and endurance back as I can.


Steph L. - Apr 16, 2024 9:38:40 am PDT #29799 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I guess there's no time like the present to work on getting as much strength and endurance back as I can.

Don't push yourself, though. It's better to start with a small amount of exercise and add very small increments gradually. (I'm only saying that because I am famously *terrible* at treating my body with any kind of respect. And in the back of my mind I secretly believe things like "If I was able to do this workout when I was 32 and healthy, surely I can do it now when I'm 52 and long Covid-y!" [SPOILER: I could not, and then it wiped me out for days.] Tim would say stuff like "Add 1 minute per day! Or even 30 seconds!" And I would be like, "Bitch, I am adding 10 minutes!" [Narrator: She learned that she was not still 32 and healthy.])


Steph L. - Apr 16, 2024 9:38:57 am PDT #29800 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Oh! Also: Happy Birthday, ND!!!


JenP - Apr 16, 2024 9:54:49 am PDT #29801 of 30000

Aw, man, I would like a little Tim avatar cheering me on with those increments! Does he hire out? Someone get on creating that app...

When I was struggling in the hospital/rehab with walking, I glommed on to the image of Megan Rapinoe walking beside me, kindly and firmly encouraging me step-by-step. I am not especially into soccer, but something about the couple of articles I had read about her stuck with me, and there she was, my own personal invisible friend. She took me from walker to unassisted. Aw. I should write her a non-weird letter.


Amy - Apr 16, 2024 9:55:19 am PDT #29802 of 30000
Because books.

Happy birthday, ND!

Good news, dcp!


-t - Apr 16, 2024 10:02:40 am PDT #29803 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Happy birthday, NoiseDesign!

That's sweet, JenP, I bet she would love getting that letter. And 1 minute per day is a perfectly cromulent increment. It's even a fine baseline to start with! A lot of how-to-meditate advice starts with times like that and why not also walking or whatever? "No pain no gain" is bullshit.


meara - Apr 16, 2024 10:08:52 am PDT #29804 of 30000

Aww Jen you should totally write her a letter!


Steph L. - Apr 16, 2024 10:21:35 am PDT #29805 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Aw, man, I would like a little Tim avatar cheering me on with those increments! Does he hire out? Someone get on creating that app...

He is the ultimate small-increment champion. "Just wash dishes for 5 minutes!" "If you're too depressed to shower, just wash your face!" "Add 1 minute to your bike time!" (Of course, now that I'm up to 30 minutes 5 times a week, he's flipped the script to "You should try the hills program on the bike! It's a real challenge!" My guy, what about my life suggests I want to bike HILLS?)

And 1 minute per day is a perfectly cromulent increment. It's even a fine baseline to start with!

I literally started with 5 (very slow) minutes, and even that was a struggle. I didn't even stretch afterwards; I immediately flopped down on the bed in my best I-am-a-log impression. Fucking long Covid.