Actually not needing validation right now, but thank you.

Buffy ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


meara - Apr 16, 2024 8:32:08 am PDT #29796 of 30000

Go Tom! I did manage to finally do an send in the at home test a few days ago, so should know in a couple weeks if I also have to do one.

David, go run! Then when there’s a bad weather day you can say “well I did that run on the nice day so I can sit this out”


juliana - Apr 16, 2024 8:45:46 am PDT #29797 of 30000
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Yes, go run! I did strength-training & cardio this morning, because I have appointments after Peanut's dropoff (when I would usually run).


EpicTangent - Apr 16, 2024 9:27:34 am PDT #29798 of 30000
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Glad to hear the positive (or not-positive) results, dcp!

Happiest of Birthdays to ND!

I need to make sure I get in a walk or two today. The other night traipsing around the theatre & then making our way to the Stage Door really re-emphasized how much strength & stamina I've lost. I think in the back of my head I've been telling myself, "When I get better I'll get strong again," and I've allowed myself to be rather a slacker. Well, if I'm not going to actually get all-the-way well again, then I guess there's no time like the present to work on getting as much strength and endurance back as I can.


Steph L. - Apr 16, 2024 9:38:40 am PDT #29799 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

I guess there's no time like the present to work on getting as much strength and endurance back as I can.

Don't push yourself, though. It's better to start with a small amount of exercise and add very small increments gradually. (I'm only saying that because I am famously *terrible* at treating my body with any kind of respect. And in the back of my mind I secretly believe things like "If I was able to do this workout when I was 32 and healthy, surely I can do it now when I'm 52 and long Covid-y!" [SPOILER: I could not, and then it wiped me out for days.] Tim would say stuff like "Add 1 minute per day! Or even 30 seconds!" And I would be like, "Bitch, I am adding 10 minutes!" [Narrator: She learned that she was not still 32 and healthy.])


Steph L. - Apr 16, 2024 9:38:57 am PDT #29800 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Oh! Also: Happy Birthday, ND!!!


JenP - Apr 16, 2024 9:54:49 am PDT #29801 of 30000

Aw, man, I would like a little Tim avatar cheering me on with those increments! Does he hire out? Someone get on creating that app...

When I was struggling in the hospital/rehab with walking, I glommed on to the image of Megan Rapinoe walking beside me, kindly and firmly encouraging me step-by-step. I am not especially into soccer, but something about the couple of articles I had read about her stuck with me, and there she was, my own personal invisible friend. She took me from walker to unassisted. Aw. I should write her a non-weird letter.


Amy - Apr 16, 2024 9:55:19 am PDT #29802 of 30000
Because books.

Happy birthday, ND!

Good news, dcp!


-t - Apr 16, 2024 10:02:40 am PDT #29803 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Happy birthday, NoiseDesign!

That's sweet, JenP, I bet she would love getting that letter. And 1 minute per day is a perfectly cromulent increment. It's even a fine baseline to start with! A lot of how-to-meditate advice starts with times like that and why not also walking or whatever? "No pain no gain" is bullshit.


meara - Apr 16, 2024 10:08:52 am PDT #29804 of 30000

Aww Jen you should totally write her a letter!


Steph L. - Apr 16, 2024 10:21:35 am PDT #29805 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Aw, man, I would like a little Tim avatar cheering me on with those increments! Does he hire out? Someone get on creating that app...

He is the ultimate small-increment champion. "Just wash dishes for 5 minutes!" "If you're too depressed to shower, just wash your face!" "Add 1 minute to your bike time!" (Of course, now that I'm up to 30 minutes 5 times a week, he's flipped the script to "You should try the hills program on the bike! It's a real challenge!" My guy, what about my life suggests I want to bike HILLS?)

And 1 minute per day is a perfectly cromulent increment. It's even a fine baseline to start with!

I literally started with 5 (very slow) minutes, and even that was a struggle. I didn't even stretch afterwards; I immediately flopped down on the bed in my best I-am-a-log impression. Fucking long Covid.