Book: Where's the doctor? Not back yet? Zoe: (beat) We don't make him hurry for the little stuff. He'll be along. Book: He could hurry... a little.

'Safe'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


EpicTangent - Apr 16, 2024 9:27:34 am PDT #29798 of 29995
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Glad to hear the positive (or not-positive) results, dcp!

Happiest of Birthdays to ND!

I need to make sure I get in a walk or two today. The other night traipsing around the theatre & then making our way to the Stage Door really re-emphasized how much strength & stamina I've lost. I think in the back of my head I've been telling myself, "When I get better I'll get strong again," and I've allowed myself to be rather a slacker. Well, if I'm not going to actually get all-the-way well again, then I guess there's no time like the present to work on getting as much strength and endurance back as I can.


Steph L. - Apr 16, 2024 9:38:40 am PDT #29799 of 29995
Apparently if you're enough of a power nerd, there is nothing that cannot be flowcharted.

I guess there's no time like the present to work on getting as much strength and endurance back as I can.

Don't push yourself, though. It's better to start with a small amount of exercise and add very small increments gradually. (I'm only saying that because I am famously *terrible* at treating my body with any kind of respect. And in the back of my mind I secretly believe things like "If I was able to do this workout when I was 32 and healthy, surely I can do it now when I'm 52 and long Covid-y!" [SPOILER: I could not, and then it wiped me out for days.] Tim would say stuff like "Add 1 minute per day! Or even 30 seconds!" And I would be like, "Bitch, I am adding 10 minutes!" [Narrator: She learned that she was not still 32 and healthy.])


Steph L. - Apr 16, 2024 9:38:57 am PDT #29800 of 29995
Apparently if you're enough of a power nerd, there is nothing that cannot be flowcharted.

Oh! Also: Happy Birthday, ND!!!


JenP - Apr 16, 2024 9:54:49 am PDT #29801 of 29995

Aw, man, I would like a little Tim avatar cheering me on with those increments! Does he hire out? Someone get on creating that app...

When I was struggling in the hospital/rehab with walking, I glommed on to the image of Megan Rapinoe walking beside me, kindly and firmly encouraging me step-by-step. I am not especially into soccer, but something about the couple of articles I had read about her stuck with me, and there she was, my own personal invisible friend. She took me from walker to unassisted. Aw. I should write her a non-weird letter.


Amy - Apr 16, 2024 9:55:19 am PDT #29802 of 29995
Because books.

Happy birthday, ND!

Good news, dcp!


-t - Apr 16, 2024 10:02:40 am PDT #29803 of 29995
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Happy birthday, NoiseDesign!

That's sweet, JenP, I bet she would love getting that letter. And 1 minute per day is a perfectly cromulent increment. It's even a fine baseline to start with! A lot of how-to-meditate advice starts with times like that and why not also walking or whatever? "No pain no gain" is bullshit.


meara - Apr 16, 2024 10:08:52 am PDT #29804 of 29995

Aww Jen you should totally write her a letter!


Steph L. - Apr 16, 2024 10:21:35 am PDT #29805 of 29995
Apparently if you're enough of a power nerd, there is nothing that cannot be flowcharted.

Aw, man, I would like a little Tim avatar cheering me on with those increments! Does he hire out? Someone get on creating that app...

He is the ultimate small-increment champion. "Just wash dishes for 5 minutes!" "If you're too depressed to shower, just wash your face!" "Add 1 minute to your bike time!" (Of course, now that I'm up to 30 minutes 5 times a week, he's flipped the script to "You should try the hills program on the bike! It's a real challenge!" My guy, what about my life suggests I want to bike HILLS?)

And 1 minute per day is a perfectly cromulent increment. It's even a fine baseline to start with!

I literally started with 5 (very slow) minutes, and even that was a struggle. I didn't even stretch afterwards; I immediately flopped down on the bed in my best I-am-a-log impression. Fucking long Covid.


Tom Scola - Apr 16, 2024 10:43:10 am PDT #29806 of 29995
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I started with 5 minutes on my rower. I'm up to 25 minutes. I SHOULD be doing it six days a week, but unfortunately, that requires mental strength, not physical strength.


-t - Apr 16, 2024 10:46:59 am PDT #29807 of 29995
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Rest and recovery is also important! For real, not just me advocating laziness like I often do.