Wesley: I stabbed you. I should apologize for that. But I'm honestly not sure how. I think it'll just be awkward. Gunn: Good call. Wesley: Okay.

'Time Bomb'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


JenP - Apr 16, 2024 9:54:49 am PDT #29801 of 30000

Aw, man, I would like a little Tim avatar cheering me on with those increments! Does he hire out? Someone get on creating that app...

When I was struggling in the hospital/rehab with walking, I glommed on to the image of Megan Rapinoe walking beside me, kindly and firmly encouraging me step-by-step. I am not especially into soccer, but something about the couple of articles I had read about her stuck with me, and there she was, my own personal invisible friend. She took me from walker to unassisted. Aw. I should write her a non-weird letter.


Amy - Apr 16, 2024 9:55:19 am PDT #29802 of 30000
Because books.

Happy birthday, ND!

Good news, dcp!


-t - Apr 16, 2024 10:02:40 am PDT #29803 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Happy birthday, NoiseDesign!

That's sweet, JenP, I bet she would love getting that letter. And 1 minute per day is a perfectly cromulent increment. It's even a fine baseline to start with! A lot of how-to-meditate advice starts with times like that and why not also walking or whatever? "No pain no gain" is bullshit.


meara - Apr 16, 2024 10:08:52 am PDT #29804 of 30000

Aww Jen you should totally write her a letter!


Steph L. - Apr 16, 2024 10:21:35 am PDT #29805 of 30000
Apparently if you're enough of a power nerd, there is nothing that cannot be flowcharted.

Aw, man, I would like a little Tim avatar cheering me on with those increments! Does he hire out? Someone get on creating that app...

He is the ultimate small-increment champion. "Just wash dishes for 5 minutes!" "If you're too depressed to shower, just wash your face!" "Add 1 minute to your bike time!" (Of course, now that I'm up to 30 minutes 5 times a week, he's flipped the script to "You should try the hills program on the bike! It's a real challenge!" My guy, what about my life suggests I want to bike HILLS?)

And 1 minute per day is a perfectly cromulent increment. It's even a fine baseline to start with!

I literally started with 5 (very slow) minutes, and even that was a struggle. I didn't even stretch afterwards; I immediately flopped down on the bed in my best I-am-a-log impression. Fucking long Covid.


Tom Scola - Apr 16, 2024 10:43:10 am PDT #29806 of 30000
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

I started with 5 minutes on my rower. I'm up to 25 minutes. I SHOULD be doing it six days a week, but unfortunately, that requires mental strength, not physical strength.


-t - Apr 16, 2024 10:46:59 am PDT #29807 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Rest and recovery is also important! For real, not just me advocating laziness like I often do.


Karl - Apr 16, 2024 12:04:54 pm PDT #29808 of 30000
Love one another.

ND, you share a birthday with a good friend of mine -- I hope that you and she both feel well-celebrated today.

Thank you, my dear invisible friends, for giving me a place where I can just hang out when the outside world seems like it's doing its best to grind me into powder.


meara - Apr 16, 2024 12:14:30 pm PDT #29809 of 30000

OK, I did one onerous task of setting up an eye appointment (....which I was supposed to have done because they wanted me to come back in January 2023). It's not until mid-June, but it's set up! Now to look up if the dermatologist I went to before is still on plan, so I can call and get a skin cancer check...probably in like October, but ah well. I also booked a trip to visit for my father's birthday.

(Edit: The dermatologist office let me make an appointment online! And it's for NEXT WEEK?! Wild)


Toddson - Apr 16, 2024 12:47:24 pm PDT #29810 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Happy Birthday ND.

Also, fyi, it's Emancipation Day in DC