You're like my fairy godmother, and Santa Claus, and Q all wrapped up into one! Q from Bond, not Star Trek.

Buffy ,'Help'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Susan W. - Aug 29, 2023 7:39:11 pm PDT #24657 of 30000
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

I am so boring with my plain old plot in an ordinary cemetery. It’s nice to lie down on it occasionally, though.

I've found a list of local-ish places that do green burials. I need to actually call them and set up a tour and ask about pricing and suchlike, but at least it's the beginnings of a plan.


javachik - Aug 29, 2023 7:47:45 pm PDT #24658 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Second grade?? I don’t believe it!!


sj - Aug 29, 2023 7:51:42 pm PDT #24659 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Javachik, neither do I! I had a teeny baby a second ago!


P.M. Marc - Aug 29, 2023 8:14:40 pm PDT #24660 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Susan, my father-in-law is in the one in Langley. Nice spot, but I would anticipate they would be out of room before all that much longer.

If it helps, 8 cups=4 pints=2 qts= half gallon. Approx 2 liters.

So basically, it just needs to be able to hold a large bottle of Coke.


Susan W. - Aug 29, 2023 8:37:23 pm PDT #24661 of 30000
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Susan, my father-in-law is in the one in Langley. Nice spot, but I would anticipate they would be out of room before all that much longer.

Good to know--thanks!


msbelle - Aug 29, 2023 8:42:27 pm PDT #24662 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

My father recently mentioned that he would like to be buried in a military cemetery. First any of us have heard that, so I’ve told my mother to start gathering the papers needed into a folder so it will all be five since I know it can be a chore.

Interesting about the size for urns. My friend L was a trained chef and had mentioned to me once in her last months that she liked the idea of being in one of her China teapots, but that wouldn’t be big enough I now realize. Maybe urn shopping can be something I do with her husband this weekend.


sarameg - Aug 29, 2023 8:51:31 pm PDT #24663 of 30000

Msbelle, you know you can ping me for volumes too (she probably has something dear of size in her kitchen. Chefs do.)


brenda m - Aug 29, 2023 9:53:34 pm PDT #24664 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I can’t speak to urns, but I’m very glad others can.

We got a little bit of a miracle with my mom, truly. At some point in the 20 years between her mom passing and her, they changed the requirements at the cemetery. It meant that there was a single open space in the old part of the cemetery between where her parents are buried and a big tree. So she is right next to them and near to other friends and family. It would have meant the world to her. (My dad only cared about being near to her, and had no issues with cremation, so as soon as we get back up to Canada, that’s where he will be too.)

I like the idea of JZ on a writing desk watching over her family in that big beautiful house that you both poured so much love into. It doesn’t relieve the rage or the sorrow, but it feels like her. It’s so raw right now that it’s hard to fathom really. But it seems right.


Cashmere - Aug 30, 2023 5:19:16 am PDT #24665 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.

It’s so raw right now that it’s hard to fathom really. But it seems right.

This. Right here.

I’m going dark for four days. David, you and Jacqueline and Matilda and Emily and Emmett are in my thoughts every day. I wish you all a bit of peace among the sorrow.


javachik - Aug 30, 2023 6:33:08 am PDT #24666 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Yeah it really raw and quite surreal.