Illyria: Wesley's dead. I'm feeling grief for him. I can't seem to control it. I wish to do more violence. Spike: Well, wishes just happen to be horses today.

'Not Fade Away'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


dcp - Aug 25, 2023 12:52:27 pm PDT #24429 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

I just want her to sleep and ease out of this world.

Yes. That's how my grandmother went, and it was a blessing.


erikaj - Aug 25, 2023 12:54:48 pm PDT #24430 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

As somebody who gets moved and cleaned by others, Anne, definitely agree, both as just a woman, and with my advocate hat on. So sorry, y'all. Intellectually, I know it gets like that, but reading it in your voice, Hec, that used to tell me much happier stories, well, it hurts more, but I feel like being your audience is the best that I could do.


meara - Aug 25, 2023 1:12:51 pm PDT #24431 of 30000

Having just been through this with my mom….hugs David. And big hugs JZ. So hard and the indignities of dying are so rude.


askye - Aug 25, 2023 1:26:34 pm PDT #24432 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

I'm so sorry David.

I did find my physical pictures from DC. They are not very good pictures but I'm going to try and take pictures with my phone and see what I can do. I have a lot of pictures of people sitting nad talking or whatever , which is fine but they are all dark and kind of blurry.

I do have several of JZ and one of David although I thought I had others and i may have some somewhere else.

I also found my external hard drive but not the cable to attach it so I ordered one and it should be here tomorrow and I'll pull off what I can.


-t - Aug 25, 2023 1:29:55 pm PDT #24433 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

As always, thank you for sharing the hard moments as well as the good memories, David. Much love to your house.


Sheryl - Aug 25, 2023 2:11:51 pm PDT #24434 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

It’s Friday and Mr. S will be visiting for the weekend. Still don’t know where he’s going to school yet.(the IEP meeting we had today was not productive since there wasn’t anyone there from his current school and the people from the county didn’t think they had enough information)


sj - Aug 25, 2023 2:42:39 pm PDT #24435 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

David, I know that feeling well. I just wanted my grandfather to not be in anymore pain near the end. Wishing any easy passing for Jacqueline, and I’m keeping all of you in my heart.


JenP - Aug 25, 2023 3:05:27 pm PDT #24436 of 30000

Sending my love, and I'm wishing for ease of passing for Jacqueline and holding you all in my heart tightly and with so much love.


smonster - Aug 25, 2023 3:12:19 pm PDT #24437 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Big hugs, Hec. My sister and I had to do a controlled slide to the floor with my mom when her legs stopped supporting her and I sat on the floor with her for half an hour until we figured out how to get her up. We called hospice but the on call nurse was almost an hour away. It was very stressful.


P.M. Marc - Aug 25, 2023 3:30:07 pm PDT #24438 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I am sorry. May it be as gentle and quiet as possible.