If you want me to leave, you can put your hands on my hot, tight little body and make me.

Spike ,'Get It Done'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


P.M. Marc - Aug 25, 2023 3:30:07 pm PDT #24438 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I am sorry. May it be as gentle and quiet as possible.


WindSparrow - Aug 25, 2023 3:48:01 pm PDT #24439 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Holding you in my heart.


Beverly - Aug 25, 2023 3:51:58 pm PDT #24440 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

All comfort and courage to your house, David. Love to each of you.


Amy - Aug 25, 2023 3:52:34 pm PDT #24441 of 30000
Because books.

Sending you both peace, light, and love. I'm glad she's with you in this, despite how hard it must be for you.


Atropa - Aug 25, 2023 3:56:15 pm PDT #24442 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

David, I've been lighting candles on my altar for all of you.

I just want her to sleep and ease out of this world.

That's how it was for my Mom, and I'm so grateful for that.


DavidS - Aug 25, 2023 4:16:36 pm PDT #24443 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I'm glad she's with you in this, despite how hard it must be for you.

I think it's made it easier for all of us. Just the privilege of tending to her. Matilda has been very loving and a great nurse. This is obviously a grievous loss which will take years to process but I think she's going to have very loving memories to work with here.

All of the close caretakers can see that it's time. She's ready. This in between space where she's lost cognitive function and the ability to engage has been difficult for her. Jacqueline is ready.


Kate P. - Aug 25, 2023 4:24:58 pm PDT #24444 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Sending you all so much love. It's been a privilege for us, too, to be invited to witness from afar, and to share this time with you, like we've shared so much else. May we all be cared for so tenderly and so well when it's our time.


Cass - Aug 25, 2023 4:25:20 pm PDT #24445 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I hope she has a peaceful transition. She is very loved. And we were all very lucky to have her. She will not be forgotten.


Susan W. - Aug 25, 2023 4:28:33 pm PDT #24446 of 30000
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Sending my love, and praying my way through the Litany at the Time of Death from the Book of Common Prayer, which as always has some gorgeous language:

Receive her into the arms of your mercy, into the blessed rest of everlasting peace, and into the glorious company of the saints in light. Amen


Sue - Aug 25, 2023 4:31:47 pm PDT #24447 of 30000
hip deep in pie

So much love to you all, David. May her passing be peaceful.