Flames wouldn't be eternal if they actually consumed anything.

Lilah ,'Not Fade Away'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - May 26, 2023 11:11:12 am PDT #22392 of 29994
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

OK, I know that's not defiitively excellent news, but it's certainly way better than it could be so I'm happy about it! Hope the remainder of this trip is easy on you both


DavidS - May 26, 2023 11:11:37 am PDT #22393 of 29994
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

David, that sounds good for this early in the treatment, especially compared to the previous treatment.

It is possible this is just what would have happened just by changing from FOLFOX to FOLFIRI but I don’t think so.

They are more aggressively attacking in this round with Avastin (monoclonal antibody that starved the tumor of blood) as well as the study drug which is highly targeted to this tumor mutation.


brenda m - May 26, 2023 11:12:25 am PDT #22394 of 29994
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh wow, very glad to hear this. Progress in the right direction.


Cass - May 26, 2023 11:19:51 am PDT #22395 of 29994
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I'm glad the scans showed no progression. Keeping you both in my thoughts.

meara, I am so sorry. I hope the results are better than anticipated and your mom has good doctors and nurses.


JenP - May 26, 2023 11:20:23 am PDT #22396 of 29994

meara, that is awful on all levels; I'm so sorry. Hoping for best possible outcomes for all of it, and it's a lot.

David, that's good to hear.


DavidS - May 26, 2023 11:25:36 am PDT #22397 of 29994
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Yeah it’s not “You’re cured!” But it’s definitely not “It’s worse and the treatment failed.”

It’s “This seems to be working and moving in the right direction.”

And that’s definitely a win after the last two scans.

The new drugs are here! Always takes forever to get them released from the pharmacy because clinical trial authorizations are many.

But now we’re on time for keeping the chemo pump clock countdown (45 hours) so we can catch our scheduled flight home on Sunday.


brenda m - May 26, 2023 11:28:45 am PDT #22398 of 29994
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Yay for new drugs, smooth countdowns, and happy doctors. The relief must be so profound.


erikaj - May 26, 2023 11:29:52 am PDT #22399 of 29994
If Scooby Doo taught me anything, it's that the only thing to fear is real-estate developers.Lisa Simpson

Sounds promising. Got rid of the social worker for another 3 months.(Not that I *meant* to put them with the tumor, but it's fitting, in a way)


brenda m - May 26, 2023 11:33:30 am PDT #22400 of 29994
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

On another topic - anyone have Vegas advice or suggestions? Against my better judgement :-) I appear to be going for my birthday this year.

I agreed if my sis could find a reasonable package for the U2 dome thing - which tbh looks pretty mind-blowing - we would go, and this is how the dates worked out. So we have a package deal with the show on Weds October 25 and staying at the Venetian Palazzo on the 25th and 26th, checking out Friday am.

I want to plan it so we arrive on Sunday or Monday and stay somewhere else for a few days first. Recommendations? Good pool lounging if possible and general accessibility to things. And we’ll probably plan a Grand Canyon trip or something like that on Tuesday.

(Also I’m not saying that people should seriously consider whether they have anywhere else better to be that week, but I’m not NOT saying that…)


Laura - May 26, 2023 11:46:39 am PDT #22401 of 29994
Our wings are not tired.

“This seems to be working and moving in the right direction.”

This seems like a very good thing.