Mal: There's plenty orders of mine that she didn't obey. Wash: Name one! Mal: She married you!

'War Stories'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


brenda m - May 26, 2023 11:12:25 am PDT #22394 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh wow, very glad to hear this. Progress in the right direction.


Cass - May 26, 2023 11:19:51 am PDT #22395 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I'm glad the scans showed no progression. Keeping you both in my thoughts.

meara, I am so sorry. I hope the results are better than anticipated and your mom has good doctors and nurses.


JenP - May 26, 2023 11:20:23 am PDT #22396 of 30000

meara, that is awful on all levels; I'm so sorry. Hoping for best possible outcomes for all of it, and it's a lot.

David, that's good to hear.


DavidS - May 26, 2023 11:25:36 am PDT #22397 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Yeah it’s not “You’re cured!” But it’s definitely not “It’s worse and the treatment failed.”

It’s “This seems to be working and moving in the right direction.”

And that’s definitely a win after the last two scans.

The new drugs are here! Always takes forever to get them released from the pharmacy because clinical trial authorizations are many.

But now we’re on time for keeping the chemo pump clock countdown (45 hours) so we can catch our scheduled flight home on Sunday.


brenda m - May 26, 2023 11:28:45 am PDT #22398 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Yay for new drugs, smooth countdowns, and happy doctors. The relief must be so profound.


erikaj - May 26, 2023 11:29:52 am PDT #22399 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

Sounds promising. Got rid of the social worker for another 3 months.(Not that I *meant* to put them with the tumor, but it's fitting, in a way)


brenda m - May 26, 2023 11:33:30 am PDT #22400 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

On another topic - anyone have Vegas advice or suggestions? Against my better judgement :-) I appear to be going for my birthday this year.

I agreed if my sis could find a reasonable package for the U2 dome thing - which tbh looks pretty mind-blowing - we would go, and this is how the dates worked out. So we have a package deal with the show on Weds October 25 and staying at the Venetian Palazzo on the 25th and 26th, checking out Friday am.

I want to plan it so we arrive on Sunday or Monday and stay somewhere else for a few days first. Recommendations? Good pool lounging if possible and general accessibility to things. And we’ll probably plan a Grand Canyon trip or something like that on Tuesday.

(Also I’m not saying that people should seriously consider whether they have anywhere else better to be that week, but I’m not NOT saying that…)


Laura - May 26, 2023 11:46:39 am PDT #22401 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

“This seems to be working and moving in the right direction.”

This seems like a very good thing.


Jesse - May 26, 2023 12:15:16 pm PDT #22402 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I want to plan it so we arrive on Sunday or Monday and stay somewhere else for a few days first. Recommendations? Good pool lounging if possible and general accessibility to things. And we’ll probably plan a Grand Canyon trip or something like that on Tuesday.

I always stay in a VRBO, for maximum pool lounging and reasonable accessibility to things, especially with a group larger than 2. It usually works out great. And I took a smaller group tour to the Grand Canyon, which was great for me -- it is far, so tough for a day trip, but I wasn't trying to hike or anything. We also stopped at the Hoover Dam and the town that the Disney movie Cars is based on (??).


-t - May 26, 2023 1:47:55 pm PDT #22403 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

No recs, but officially considering if I have anywhere better to be that week...[checks calendar, ooh, a week after the eclipse! Hm]