I know I'm a bad poet, but I'm a good man. All I ask is that... is that you try to see me—

William ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 20, 2023 7:19:53 pm PST #20091 of 30000
What is even happening?

Jacqueline, you are bathed in prayer, girl. I pray the chemo kicks cancer's ass, and leaves the rest of your asstastic self alone. JZ, we love you so much. That counts for something. It's positive energy put out in this world we don't understand. But there is so much of it. You have been a balm, a delight, and a comfort, to all of us, for more than 20 years. Karma isn't really a part of my world view, but that's doesn't mean it is not real. Your love and kindness are real. They will come back to you.

David (Matilda, Emmett), take it as easy as you can. I know your hearts must be in your throats.

Susan, I hope your recovery is going well.

Sophia, I agree with Hec about your job.

Cindy - great to see your pixels, too, friend.

Right back atcha, JenP. ♥

YESSSSSSSSS

Teppy, I miss and love you.

Plei, I know you haven't posted here, but I saw you in the 2022 thread. I hope your household's Covid has finally passed. DH is over his. C and I never caught it. B did, but we don't think it was from us. Our dog now has old dog vestibular disease, but she's okay.

TL;DR: I'm so glad you're here, Buffistas.

(Laura, much love to you.)

Also, Cashmere, WTF are you? Did you cancel your newest (sweary library?) Twitter name? I miss you.


Steph L. - Jan 20, 2023 7:34:20 pm PST #20092 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

YESSSSSSSSS

Teppy, I miss and love you.

I miss and love you, too, Cindy! ♥♥♥

Our dog now has old dog vestibular disease

Wobbly dog? Kato had that when he was an older fellow.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 20, 2023 8:13:00 pm PST #20093 of 30000
What is even happening?

She's so fricking drunk, Teppy!


Topic!Cindy - Jan 20, 2023 8:13:20 pm PST #20094 of 30000
What is even happening?

I'm watching Becoming, BTW. Do you see my resolve face?


Topic!Cindy - Jan 20, 2023 8:15:04 pm PST #20095 of 30000
What is even happening?

I'm shamelessly promoting my Adios 2022 post, because it was hard, and I want your empathy.

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Steph L. - Jan 20, 2023 8:15:29 pm PST #20096 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

I'm watching Becoming, BTW. Do you see my resolve face?

♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

Now that I can copy and paste hearts, I'm going cardio-crazy!


Steph L. - Jan 20, 2023 8:19:13 pm PST #20097 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

I'm shamelessly promoting my Adios 2022 post, because it was hard, and I want your empathy.

I just read it! Sweetheart, that is A LOT. Too much, in fact. Being the caretaker for a parent is hard enough when their temperament is good (or even neutral). But when they're difficult, mean, or suddenly a dirty old man (in the case of my FIL), it's really really fucking hard. Honestly, I'm glad that Covid gave you a break from mom duty.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 20, 2023 8:20:03 pm PST #20098 of 30000
What is even happening?

I love you so much.

Woo hoo! (Also, I need ATTENTION in the year-end thread.)


Topic!Cindy - Jan 20, 2023 8:28:29 pm PST #20099 of 30000
What is even happening?

I just read it! Sweetheart, that is A LOT. Too much, in fact. Being the caretaker for a parent is hard enough when their temperament is good (or even neutral). But when they're difficult, mean, or suddenly a dirty old man (in the case of my FIL), it's really really fucking hard. Honestly, I'm glad that Covid gave you a break from mom duty.

She was so mean. I would have left her, but I knew it was (mostly) the drugs making her mean. I am sorry DH had COVID for his sake, but otherwise? I am grateful. This was abuse.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 20, 2023 8:29:27 pm PST #20100 of 30000
What is even happening?

Honestly, I'm supposed to see her Sunday (10 days after DH tested negative), but I kind of don't want to. I will, because I'm that kind of kid, but man.