I don't know how I feel right now. Except just sad.
And J's exwife has been out of jail now for a few weeks and her daughter let Mom know that she (the ex wife) has been getting drunk again. Which makes me sad too because I think based on what little I know of her parents and sibling, what she needs is a lot of therapy and support.
This also means that the ex wife will get to make decisions about J's son and all of that and .,.it's a mess. That child needs a miracle and there aren't any.
On a side note my mom's brother was married for a long time, he and my aunt got divorced when his daughters were in their 20s to a woman who was only a few years older than his oldest daughter and who has the same name as Mom. I haven't ever really gotten to know her so she's always "my uncle's wife" in my head.
To my aunt, however, she has become "wife-in-law" and my aunt just posted a selfie of the three of them saying Happy Birthday Wife in Law .
Which makes me smile that they can build that kind of relationship and support system.
askye, that so hard. I'm sorry.
ISTG, I think I know (or know of) more people who've tested positive for Covid in the past 2 weeks than in the entire last 2 years. Omicron is not fucking around.
I'm so sorry, askye. This fucking year.
Here's a change of pace; the most American video ever. It has a happy ending!
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I'm so sorry, askye.
Which makes me smile that they can build that kind of relationship and support system.
This is really lovely. I was very lucky that my parents loved me more than divorce conflict. My family has also kept my ex-aunt-in-law as family. Life is so much better when people can either co-exist or leave the other's orbit.
the most American video ever.
There is a fast-Mexican place called Berto's when they stop for lunch. The Southern California in me is laughing. I'm only about five minutes in...