Yeah if he were a junior it might be easier—find a way to split the difference for a year then move. But doing that for 2.5 years would be really hard. I vote move but only if there’s no possibility of Mr Flea’s job requiring in person again? And as long as you’re pretty certain you’d dig the other job.

Wow, flea, that's a big jump! Where on the Cape, if I may ask? My oldest friend in the world lives in Falmouth/Woods Hole.

askye, I hope you don't read this, but I hope you can find some audiobooks to keep you occupied? I spent about a week flat on my back with nausea after inner-ear surgery, and all I could do was listen to audiobooks streaming on my laptop. Public libraries (or Hoopla) often have audiobooks to listen to for free.

(I can recommend the Retrograde series by LTLJ, which is a brilliant SG-1/SGA AU recorded all together as one big audiobook. Also Terry Pratchett does great audiobooks, and there are a lot of them.)

Housing would be relatively straightforward as my mother owns a house (in Woods Hole) and is willing to rent it to us at below-market rates. (It being cape cod, the housing market is insane.) The problem of course is that my mother is a lot, and being her tenant would be interesting.

(Edit: she also has a tenant until may so I’d be looking for short term housing. There are so many things to consider and I’ve moved so many times…)

Moving is always awful, but when I have made my pro/con lists on decisions that one somehow ends up not being that big a factor. Lifestyle, friends, family, work environment. Lots of intangibles, but the longer you make the lists and the deeper you dig into the abundance of deciding factors the right choice often becomes clear. So I say write it all down!

Holy shit I finally caught up. That'll teach me to pay attention to my family over a holiday weekend instead of this board.

flea, wow! I don't think I have anything more to offer that hasn't already been said, except that I am always in favor of more Buffistas in the Northeast.

Cape Cod sounds like a winner to me too, flea. Best of luck whichever way you decide.

I was Little Drummer Boyed last night in the last place I would expect, a Chinese buffet. Oh well, at least I can turn the radio dial without fear now.

I think it was last year (maybe the year before) I was LDB'd by the outside speakers of a cigar bar.

I was LDB'd by my own brother-in-law the day after Thanksgiving! And then I had to explain the game to my entire extended family (along with Whamageddon) because apparently this is not as common a thing as I thought it was.

this is not as common a thing as I thought it was

I feel this. I'm still on a campaign to get @@ into common consciousness for eyeroll, all credit to Jesse. Well, the campaign has waned a bit over the years, but I did just use it on a FB post today!

It's always a challenge, between shopping in department stores and half the local radio stations converting to 24/7 Christmas music the day after Thanksgiving. But I wouldn't have guessed I'd lose going "more Mongolian beef please, pa rum pum pum pum—dammit!"