Giles ,'Touched'
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Nice, Sheryl. Enjoy!
My bellydance teacher just sent out an email saying she is taking a break from dancing and the three of us remaining in the troupe should collectively figure out choreography and costumes and whatever for a while. I do not have a good feeling about this. I mean, it's probably a good thing for her to take a break, she has a broken bone in her foot and has been making noises about retiring for the past year, but I know none of us want to do choreography. Bah.
Your wife is entirely wrong.
She won't change. She will always find fault with you because she is abusive .
Truth.
I'm sorry, -t. I hope you find someone to take her place.
She also told me that the I did the cruelest thing that's ever been done to her, which makes me feel terrible. I'm not even sure what that is and that makes me feel like the worst person ever. I can't help but wonder if she's right and I'm really just that horrible of a person. Maybe I hide it when I online or something. Terrible as I'm feeling, I have to somehow keep my wits because I'd still under a lot of pressure from work. I can't stand how I am right now and there's no way out.
She also told me that the I did the cruelest thing that's ever been done to her
She is abusive and manipulative. She is abusing YOU. I hope she's not also abusing your children.
I can't help but wonder if she's right and I'm really just that horrible of a person.
Is it easier for you to believe that than it is to believe that you're married to an abuser? I can understand how it could be easier to believe that the fault lies with you, but I desperately wish we could make you comprehend and really believe that you are married to an abuser.
Gud, not seeing a text does not mean anything, especially since you finally did answer and explained. Try to hear all of us when we say this to you. YOU DID NOTHING WRONG. As to "the worst thing," when you are calmer, ask her to explain. If she won't, that's just an unkind and abusive thing to say and it's not worth even thinking about. If she does, then you can work though it together.
She also told me that the I did the cruelest thing that's ever been done to her, which makes me feel terrible. I'm not even sure what that is
Gud, no one makes that accusation without actually specifying what they're talking about. She may believe it's true, but she's using it as a weapon against you.
Gud, you did NOTHING wrong. NOTHING. You are not a bad person. You are being emotionally abused, and you (and the kids!) deserve so much better.
As to "the worst thing," when you are calmer, ask her to explain. If she won't, that's just an unkind and abusive thing to say and it's not worth even thinking about. If she does, then you can work though it together.
This needs to be repeated, and scrappy is wise.
Please believe all of us over the one of her. Please at least entertain the idea that she could be wrong.
So I didn't hear 2 of moms phone calls and 2 of dad's and they are trying to ask me/tell me stuff due to a hurricane.
I didn't get them because the phone was in a cooler and the wind was blowing at the beach. No one was mad at me.
You should ask her about the worst thing and if she says you should know or something to avoid explaining then this is another sign she is abusive.
The cruelest thing that has been done is her making you believe for even a moment that you aren't the loving and responsible father, husband, and citizen that you show yourself to be every day. She is abusive and setting a horrible example for your children.