I wanna hurt you, but I can't resist the sinister attraction of your cold and muscular body!

Buffybot ,'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


-t - Jun 02, 2026 4:38:30 pm PDT #8327 of 8351
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

::checks time::

What did you decide to wear, Jess?!? And what did you do with your hair, anything? It's pretty rock chic on the daily...


erikaj - Jun 02, 2026 6:06:07 pm PDT #8328 of 8351
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

Krysten Sinema killed any urge I have to wear a wig or color my hair anything...exotic. That isn't the thing I blame her for, but it's something else she kind of ruined.(Not that I haven't missed my Manic Panic window by several decades, anyway. Much like ex-Senator It's-Not-Cool_to_brag about skipping third grade when you're forty and allegedly an instructor in your own right.)


JenP - Jun 02, 2026 6:35:53 pm PDT #8329 of 8351

It's pretty rock chic on the daily...

Excellent point.

Krysten Sinema killed any urge I have to wear a wig or color my hair anything

That's fair.


Jessica - Jun 03, 2026 6:35:44 am PDT #8330 of 8351
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

What did you decide to wear, Jess?!? And what did you do with your hair, anything? It's pretty rock chic on the daily...

I decided against the leather corset in the end because I really only have RenFair skirts to go with it. (I tried it with jeans and it created this very unflattering effect where the corset's waistline was like 8 inches above where the jeans' waistline was, and the only tunic length shirts I have that would have fixed that are long sleeved. ) So I went with a black shirt that's got a low sweetheart neckline and then the top half is mesh. I left my hair alone so I wouldn't have to sleep with product in it or take a shower at midnight when I got home.

Many people were decked out in their goth club best, I prioritized being comfortable on the hourlong train ride to and from the city because I am older than I am cool by several decades.


Trudy Booth - Jun 03, 2026 6:56:02 am PDT #8331 of 8351
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

The one time I wore a fancy-pants wig on a big-budget production I could not feel it on my head. It probably cost more than my head.


Laura - Jun 03, 2026 7:30:04 am PDT #8332 of 8351
Our wings are not tired.

I prioritized being comfortable on the hourlong train ride to and from the city because I am older than I am cool by several decades.

Being comfortable is a reasonable priority. Makes for a more enjoyable event.


-t - Jun 03, 2026 7:43:17 am PDT #8333 of 8351
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Sounds like good choices! And you looked good on FB


meara - Jun 03, 2026 9:47:40 am PDT #8334 of 8351

Shame about the leather corset but I 100% understand the issue of matching it to some appropriate bottom! I hate when I have a cool top or bottom but not the right piece to match it because the pants or shirts I have the waistline is too low or too high!!

I really miss having blue hair but I do not want to bleach my hair for it because that caused such damage. Sigh. Trade offs.


erikaj - Jun 06, 2026 2:09:09 pm PDT #8335 of 8351
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

Once again, I failed to turn the world on with my dials. I remember when that used to feel super-important. Wow, I guess I have a real working life after all. Yay? (Except, since it feels like I do everything backwards maybe I'll have a retirement filled with commutes and front-office intrigue...pretty bad that I'm bored enough to kind of anticipate that, right?)


Calli - Jun 07, 2026 6:24:50 pm PDT #8336 of 8351
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I feel like 7pm on a Tuesday can be punk, but can't be glam.

I think events starting at 7pm on a Tuesday have a potential “damn the man, my boss won’t see me Wednesday morning” aspect that makes them potentially punk. But yeah, nsm glam.