Oooof. I'm sorry, Hil -- that just sucks.
Does anybody mind if I pass out?
Willow ,'Beneath You'
Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?
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Karl - Jan 29, 2019 1:24:57 pm PST #5139 of 8216
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.
Hil R. - Jan 29, 2019 4:06:42 pm PST #5140 of 8216
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
This side of the family is a ton of people -- my great-grandmother was the third of 12 children in her family, and nine of those kids had kids of their own, so just by the time you get to my mom's generation, it's several dozen people -- so I figured that posting a chart to keep track of who was who might be useful.
Laura - Jan 29, 2019 4:16:15 pm PST #5141 of 8216
Our wings are not tired.
It is useful, Hil. She is just ridiculous. People don't get that a locked post isn't available to the world at large.
Hil R. - Jan 29, 2019 5:30:15 pm PST #5142 of 8216
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
I just don't even get what she thinks that anyone would do with that information.
Katerina Bee - Jan 29, 2019 7:09:22 pm PST #5143 of 8216
Herding cats for fun
Why not fill out her family tree anyway and put in some stupid, obvious mistakes, like double the number of children and add a few random spouses. Then forward for her input and claim it's all public record.
Just if you want to wave that red flag at the angry bull, that is.
Hil R. - Jan 29, 2019 7:16:04 pm PST #5144 of 8216
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
I just checked, and found that she's on at least three other public trees on various genealogy websites. (Or, at least, her parents are, plus two children -- it doesn't show names for living people.)
meara - Jan 29, 2019 7:55:23 pm PST #5145 of 8216
I guess she figured if it's a security question like oldest cousin or mothers middle name or something?? But yeah, hard to hide.
lisah - Jan 30, 2019 4:31:15 am PST #5146 of 8216
Punishingly Intricate
Yeah, seems like ignoring her is a good idea.
Hil R. - Jan 30, 2019 9:29:17 am PST #5147 of 8216
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
I sent back a message, "Thanks for reaching out! If you want to be excluded from the family tree, that's fine. I'd never share any information that anyone was uncomfortable sharing."
I did not point out that all of this information was easily available.
Vortex - Jan 30, 2019 3:33:27 pm PST #5148 of 8216
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
That was big of you. I would have been all "However, if you are disturbed by this, you may want to check out ___ where similar information can be found."
Passive aggressive and petty? Moi?
And fuck, I lost a favorite earring. Even more annoying because I touched it earlier and realized that it didn't have a keeper on the wire and thought "need to make sure that I put one on when I get home." grrrrrrrrr.