Lorne: You know what they say about people who need people. Connor: They're the luckiest people in the world. Lorne: You been sneaking peeks at my Streisand collection again, Kiddo? Connor: Just kinda popped out.

'Time Bomb'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


WindSparrow - Jun 09, 2017 6:17:57 pm PDT #499 of 8185
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I'm glad you found a way to make it work so you could see Wonder Woman, and you liked it.


Hil R. - Jun 09, 2017 6:45:25 pm PDT #500 of 8185
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

There's a Star Wars costume exhibit at a museum here, and I think I might go see that sometime next week and use my wheelchair -- it seems like a good place to get the hang of how the chair moves, before trying it on the really uneven pavement on campus. Plus, Star Wars costumes.


quester - Jun 09, 2017 6:55:52 pm PDT #501 of 8185
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Steph, give yourself a fucking break! You deserve it! Life events of the unplanned variety always trump the ones of the planned ilk. Any adult knows this. If your friends don't get it, they will get over it.

Jessica, smite that asshole to dust!

Hil, glad you saw WW.


beth b - Jun 09, 2017 7:09:05 pm PDT #502 of 8185
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

As someone that tries to plan things so person x can be there - say I can't go this time. The reason I plan things around someone - is because they have the hard schedule. But , no matter how disappointed I am that someone can't make it, shit happens.

I have horrid things going on at work. Admin bullshit - that had me in tears yesterday. So far I am going forward with a everything. but I said yes to one thing next weekend -and I am still thinking of doing a last minute Fuck it - and running away for the weekend

The only thing you have to do - is say so sorry , I can't make it- if you feel like it - you have two good excuses- but really - you don't need them


Katerina Bee - Jun 09, 2017 7:55:09 pm PDT #503 of 8185
Herding cats for fun

Why not say you are terribly sorry, but due to the Great Pants Crisis of 2017, the calendar has become fracked and is no longer cromulent.


P.M. Marc - Jun 09, 2017 8:00:52 pm PDT #504 of 8185
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Tep, you have had so much shit hitting multiple fans that just saying up front, hey, I know I thought I could make this, but we've had one crisis too many and I am exhausted and just can't right now seems more than reasonable.

And if they push back? FUCK THOSE GUYS.


WindSparrow - Jun 09, 2017 8:02:13 pm PDT #505 of 8185
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

beth, sorry to hear about work being a bear. I hope you can de-stress yourself.


Calli - Jun 10, 2017 1:47:16 am PDT #506 of 8185
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Steph, your mom just had major open heart surgery. Anyone else who insists on your social presence and personal energy for the next month is an asshat and needs to STFU.


Laura - Jun 10, 2017 5:03:59 am PDT #507 of 8185
Our wings are not tired.

Steph, give yourself a fucking break! You deserve it! Life events of the unplanned variety always trump the ones of the planned ilk. Any adult knows this. If your friends don't get it, they will get over it.

Jessica, smite that asshole to dust!

Hil, glad you saw WW.

What quester and others have said. I am just catching up here.

In Tallahassee for a b-ball tournament. 57 teams from all over so there are lots and lots of teens and coaches and so forth all over the place. I haven't gone to any of the games because I am just dedicated to relaxing. I have read a bunch, and swam. Now awaiting a friend to pick me up who I haven't seen in years.

Do I feel guilty that DH's team had 3 games yesterday and another 3 today and I am not doing a team mom thing? Maybe, but it isn't altering my relaxation plans, because I know I need the down time. Self care for the win!


WindSparrow - Jun 10, 2017 5:31:07 am PDT #508 of 8185
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Strix, all the ~ma for D's family.