Yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong with bailing in that situation.
'Out Of Gas'
Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?
Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
meara, bail. You don't need to put yourself through that. There's no reason to voluntarily put yourself in a situation that will hurt you.
I'm waiting for a bus. On my way to the bus stop a random person saw me with my loaded backpack and shopping case and asked if I needed a ride.i didn't but sometimes strangers can be the nicest people.
If you can bail then do that. Take care of yourself.
I agree completely on bailing. Last moment, can't do it, migraine. Or friend emergency, I'll be an alibi. I was distraught, you got caught up on the phone with me. Don't like those, we can give you dozens more outs.
Yeah, I may go with migraine--all our good friends will be there. And it sucks extra because it sounds like lots of fun--a cabin, a lake, a hot tub...but...
It is only fun if it is fun for you. I'm sorry this is so hard.
Also, as an aside, when I first read the post my eyes saw msbelle instead of meara, and I wondered how I missed that msbelle was into women, then re-read. Well, I was amused.
I'm sorry, meara. I vote for self care by bailing in this case.
Lol! Msbelle, wanna expand your opportunities? Join the wide world of dating women!
With no real life experience and relying only on observation, it would appear that dating women is as annoying as dating men. Also assuming that there are offsetting pluses.