I'm with Sparky, Typo. You are not bound by social obligation to someone who is not civil or polite.
She made a choice. She should not expect a response.
Silence is your friend.
Wild monkey love or tender Sarah McLachlan love?
Xander ,'Him'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
beekaytee - Sep 23, 2014 1:54:19 pm PDT #13392 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant
Glamcookie - Sep 23, 2014 2:09:48 pm PDT #13393 of 30002
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
Agreed with the others in re: the food. Hell, I'd go one step further and eat the hell out of it. She'll be none the wiser and she's caused you enough annoyance that you deserve a nice salmon feast. Enjoy!
erikaj - Sep 23, 2014 4:31:05 pm PDT #13394 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!
If it's something you like, enjoy.
Hil R. - Sep 23, 2014 6:04:31 pm PDT #13395 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
I went out and was social! And my team won trivia! (Things where I was the one who got the answer included Hugo Boss, the Book of Mormon, the Rainier Tower, and Honey Boo Boo.)
Vortex - Sep 23, 2014 8:06:40 pm PDT #13396 of 30002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
OTOH, sending her a note is engaging her. OTOH, she can't claim "well, you accepted it, so I thought that everything was okay".
Only other option is returning to her when she's not home.
Vortex - Sep 23, 2014 8:06:41 pm PDT #13397 of 30002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
OTOH, sending her a note is engaging her. OTOH, she can't claim "well, you accepted it, so I thought that everything was okay".
Only other option is returning to her when she's not home.
Typo Boy - Sep 23, 2014 8:49:07 pm PDT #13398 of 30002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
Not going to drive that far. Gave to food to neighbors. No note to her. If she comes back, I'll tell her that it is given away. I thought I had gotten rid of her before. She must have run out of people who will tolerate her and be trying again with those with whom she had the least nasty breakups.
sj - Sep 24, 2014 8:10:28 am PDT #13399 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Typo Boy, people like that can be very stubborn, not contacting her at all seems like a good idea.
The waitress at lunch today tried to take my plate away three times while I was still eating. She is very lucky she didn't get stabbed in the hand with a fork.
Connie Neil - Sep 24, 2014 8:44:02 am PDT #13400 of 30002
brillig
The waitress at lunch today tried to take my plate away three times while I was still eating.
That sort of things gets a chat with the manager about the impression of being hustled out of the place.
sj - Sep 24, 2014 8:47:11 am PDT #13401 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
The manager and everyone else in the place was in the back room preparing for a big party to arrive, which is probably why we were being rushed, but I was still not pleased.