OTOH, sending her a note is engaging her. OTOH, she can't claim "well, you accepted it, so I thought that everything was okay".
Only other option is returning to her when she's not home.
I'm a single undead gal trying to make it in the big city. I have to start somewhere and they're evil here. They don't judge. They've got necro-tempered glass. No burning up. A great medical plan, and who needs dental more than us?
Harmony ,'Conviction (1)'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Vortex - Sep 23, 2014 8:06:41 pm PDT #13397 of 30002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
Typo Boy - Sep 23, 2014 8:49:07 pm PDT #13398 of 30002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
Not going to drive that far. Gave to food to neighbors. No note to her. If she comes back, I'll tell her that it is given away. I thought I had gotten rid of her before. She must have run out of people who will tolerate her and be trying again with those with whom she had the least nasty breakups.
sj - Sep 24, 2014 8:10:28 am PDT #13399 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Typo Boy, people like that can be very stubborn, not contacting her at all seems like a good idea.
The waitress at lunch today tried to take my plate away three times while I was still eating. She is very lucky she didn't get stabbed in the hand with a fork.
Connie Neil - Sep 24, 2014 8:44:02 am PDT #13400 of 30002
brillig
The waitress at lunch today tried to take my plate away three times while I was still eating.
That sort of things gets a chat with the manager about the impression of being hustled out of the place.
sj - Sep 24, 2014 8:47:11 am PDT #13401 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
The manager and everyone else in the place was in the back room preparing for a big party to arrive, which is probably why we were being rushed, but I was still not pleased.
Calli - Sep 24, 2014 10:24:56 am PDT #13402 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
It's 59F and pouring rain here. I have a hummingbird feeder on my covered porch, kinda protected from the wind and rain. There's a hummingbird just sort of hanging out on it, all fluffed up and taking occasional sips, like someone lingering over a cup of coffee in a diner on a crappy day. It's a good day to have home baked pumpkin bread and a cat on my lap.
Zenkitty - Sep 24, 2014 10:34:43 am PDT #13403 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Calli, that's a lovely image.
WindSparrow - Sep 24, 2014 11:49:12 am PDT #13404 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Typo, lots of ~ma for your ma.
Toddson - Sep 24, 2014 12:38:06 pm PDT #13405 of 30002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"
Are you PREPARED?
sj - Sep 24, 2014 12:43:43 pm PDT #13406 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I dropped off books at the circulation desk today, that I know were two weeks late, on my way downstairs to volunteer. As I was leaving, I went back on my way out to pay my fines and was told there were no fines on my account. Perks of volunteering, maybe? No one actually said they deleted the fines.