There are also the SOs who don't go on the camping trip, but spend the weekend telling you how you should deal with something you've been dealing with for 15 years.
Damn. you do not lie.
Some people juggle geese!
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le nubian - Mar 11, 2012 8:26:59 am PDT #9487 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
flea - Mar 11, 2012 8:27:08 am PDT #9488 of 30001
information libertarian
Hon, if you you'd like me to come with you to the hospital, drop by and pick me up. Or you can come over and plant peas on the balcony.
(IOW, you have a localista now! Take advantage of me!)
Steph L. - Mar 11, 2012 8:35:25 am PDT #9489 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Thanks, flea! It's not that I mind going to the hospital by myself (though I would rather plant peas than go to a hospital -- I hate them); I just...don't like being left to deal with this alone.
And if I had asked Tim to stay, I would totally have felt guilty. So it is kind of a no-win situation, and I get that.
And now I really have to get out of here, since I needed to leave half an hour ago. Bah. It's a nice day and I planned to walk the dog. Well, there should still be sunlight when I get home.
Sean K - Mar 11, 2012 8:51:33 am PDT #9490 of 30001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Teppy, one of these days we can have a conversation about the contradictory thoughts I had every time S went into the hospital again.
You are not feeling anything worth beating yourself up over.
Connie Neil - Mar 11, 2012 9:04:08 am PDT #9491 of 30001
brillig
Teppy, one of these days we can have a conversation about the contradictory thoughts I had every time S went into the hospital again.
Honest to God, when Hubby gives me that look and says, "I think it's time for the ER," my second thought is "God dammit, again!?" and not in the "please god help me" sense. The worry pathways get worn out, and anger isn't that far below.
But there's shit-all you can do about it except deal.
beth b - Mar 11, 2012 9:36:11 am PDT #9492 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
of course it is completely normal to have contradicery feelings
Laura - Mar 11, 2012 9:53:46 am PDT #9493 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.
Nice to hear about the quality sister visit time, Zen. I miss sewing. I need to get back to it.
I hope the hospital visit yields some answers to your questions, Teppy.
Atropa - Mar 11, 2012 10:42:41 am PDT #9494 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
All of those things are true, and I fully acknowledge them, and yet I'm still annoyed. I'm allowed to feel those contradictory things, right?
Yes. Oh yes, you are allowed the contradictory feelings.
Sean K - Mar 11, 2012 11:02:42 am PDT #9495 of 30001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
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smonster - Mar 11, 2012 12:15:53 pm PDT #9496 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
What everyone else said, Teppy. Hope you are getting some answers at the hospital.
I'm feeling weirdly lightheaded, and was swaying in the shower. Not sure what that's about. I've had breakfast and lunch, I shouldn't be hungover and have had plenty of water today, I took a nap, I've taken my meds... don't know what's going on, but Do Not Want. I have errands to run and a show to go to!