I seen you without your clothes on before. Never thought I'd see you naked.

Mal ,'Trash'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


§ ita § - Aug 17, 2012 1:27:49 pm PDT #18910 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

It's perfectly possible you could meet someone with asexual expectations on a dating website, but if you're on a dating website looking for guys who don't want to date, things might be rocky.

OKCupid has a friendship option, doesn't it? Does Geek2Geek?


Zenkitty - Aug 17, 2012 1:34:07 pm PDT #18911 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

It's perfectly possible you could meet someone with asexual expectations on a dating website, but if you're on a dating website looking for guys who don't want to date, things might be rocky.

I'm not looking for someone who doesn't want to date. Did I even say that? I'm not even looking for a guy who doesn't want to have sex. I'm looking for a companion, and I'm trying to deal with my anxiety and my issues regarding something I consider to be a part of dating.

My original post was just asking for some help writing my response to a guy whose profile I liked.


Zenkitty - Aug 17, 2012 1:34:46 pm PDT #18912 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

OKCupid has a friendship option, doesn't it? Does Geek2Geek?

Doesn't look like it.


Polter-Cow - Aug 17, 2012 1:37:29 pm PDT #18913 of 30001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

My original post was just asking for some help writing my response to a guy whose profile I liked.

I agree with Burrell that the phrase "Neutral Zone" may carry connotations you don't intend. Meeting for a "chat and a beverage" sounds pretty neutral as it is (it's not DINNER, thank God), and it certainly doesn't sound like "Sex me up!" Unless he has a very different interpretation of "chat" and "beverage." Send it, and best of luck!


Zenkitty - Aug 17, 2012 1:44:54 pm PDT #18914 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I got rid of Neutral Zone and sent it. aaiighhh


omnis_audis - Aug 17, 2012 1:45:14 pm PDT #18915 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Unless his name is Romeo, and you are Juliet, then a nuetral zone may be required. Just don't drink the poison in the tomb!!!


omnis_audis - Aug 17, 2012 1:47:36 pm PDT #18916 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

ION- It's American Ballet Theater week here at work. And the kids have finished 3 weeks of sleep away camp, learning all sorts of dance stuff, and putting on shows for their parents. There are about 6 boys. And I have determined, they need to wear a wig with a bun. Dunno why. I just think it'd be funny.

(yes, I am a bit bored, as is the nature of running sound for an event that just requires hitting the GO button. But that means things are going well, so, can't complain)


§ ita § - Aug 17, 2012 1:47:40 pm PDT #18917 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I'm not looking for someone who doesn't want to date

I was misled by your pointing out of this:

You were just the other day unhappy because you went to a dating thing and met a girl who might like to be friends but didn't seem to want to date you.

If you're looking to date someone and not be just friends then just put that you don't want to have sex in your profile.


Zenkitty - Aug 17, 2012 1:54:32 pm PDT #18918 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

If you're looking to date someone and not be just friends then just put that you don't want to have sex in your profile.

That doesn't make any sense to me.


§ ita § - Aug 17, 2012 1:59:47 pm PDT #18919 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

What doesn't make sense?

You're looking to date, right?

You seem to not want to have sex, right?

You have a profile, right?

So say, in your profile, that you're not looking for sex.

Did I misunderstand you that entirely?