GOOD LORD. And now, days after the sudden 45 second "I'm looking for something else" convo, I get a text from the girl saying "I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings, I may have been abrupt and I'm sorry". Um, yeah, you were really fucking abrupt. WTF am I supposed to say in response to that? "Yeah, you need to work on your breakup skillz"??
Right, there comes a point where you have to either move on, or just buy yourself a Klingon costume and go with it.
Xander ,'Same Time, Same Place'
Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.
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meara - Mar 24, 2010 7:01:05 pm PDT #13878 of 30000
WindSparrow - Mar 24, 2010 7:07:30 pm PDT #13879 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
meara, that's definitely ... odd.
Now I'm imagining Worf in an apron, cooking dinner in my tiny kitchen.
Shirtless under the apron, and declaming epic Klingon poetry as he works. Yeah, I want a Worf wofe too.
ETA: Wow, P-C, that's certainly something, if anything you say, at all, is sinking in. It's been hard work, and a long road, but it sounds like you may be making a dent in the hard heads.
brenda m - Mar 24, 2010 7:08:44 pm PDT #13880 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
"Yeah, you need to work on your breakup skillz"??
Send that to her six months from now. For now, just ignore.
Vortex - Mar 24, 2010 7:10:20 pm PDT #13881 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
I need a wofe that cleans. I'm happy to cook (and even clean up the kitchen), but I'm starting to worry that the dustbunnies are going to attack me in my sleep.
DCJensen - Mar 24, 2010 7:16:15 pm PDT #13882 of 30000
All is well that ends in pizza.
Orange wofe? Orange wofe? Three orange wofes
Bah, Bah a black Sheep,
Have you a Wofe?
Yes merry have I,
Three Orange full,
One for the Master,
One for my Dame,
One for the Buffista
That lives down the lane...
DCJensen - Mar 24, 2010 7:18:41 pm PDT #13883 of 30000
All is well that ends in pizza.
In my opinion, most wofes are wofeully unappreciated.
meara - Mar 24, 2010 7:19:38 pm PDT #13884 of 30000
Send that to her six months from now. For now, just ignore.
Sigh. Too late, I engaged. And said basically that. "My feelings weren't all that engaged, but yes, you need to work on your breakup skills for the next girl. WTF? Why text me now?"
And she was like "Guess"
And I said "No thanks, I don't care to play games" (because...seriously? Are you trying to blow me off and then a few days later get booty call me or something???)
And then "My breakup skills suck, I know. I've been wishing I could've been softer and really needed to apologize. Why now? took some time to get the understanding"
And then "No games intended, just wanted to clear the air. Take care"
Dude. Fuck the hell off.
DCJensen - Mar 24, 2010 7:20:18 pm PDT #13885 of 30000
All is well that ends in pizza.
There's no doubt that it contributed to the big bad wofe.
(ETA: not in response to meara's post.)
ChiKat - Mar 24, 2010 7:48:11 pm PDT #13886 of 30000
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?
Apparently my kinks don't include hunky men in aprons.
Mine do. Dear me. Although, I would gladly cook if he'd clean and do laundry.
Burrell - Mar 24, 2010 8:09:50 pm PDT #13887 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Ugh meara. I'm glad you're well clear of her, but ugh.