Y'know, I got to "hold him up high" and didn't need to read any further. I just knew what words were about to follow.

To be fair, I could see "peed in my face" as a viable end to that story.

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bt, new(ish) parent though you may be, I don't see you as quite clueless enough at this point to do something so obviously asking for trouble.

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bt, new(ish) parent though you may be, I don't see you as quite clueless enough at this point to do something so obviously asking for trouble.

You'd think, wouldn't you? But he does so enjoy the flying baby game, it doesn't seem right to tell him bathtime means he's grounded.

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Oh, people make tactical errors all the time, even clueful ones.

ETA: Or should I say, people, even clueful ones, make tactical errors all the time.

P.S. I haz teh gronk.

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Well played, tiny person. Well played.

They are here to replace us, you know.

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Well played, tiny person. Well played.

They are here to replace us, you know.

It's the circle of spit up.

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Admitting when the conference ends -- fine, but you have plans for Saturday -- even if the plan is not to spend time with your parents.

You have networking to do. Important networking. Networking that could lead to Great Things.

Seriously, P-C, you have to learn that what your parents don't know won't hurt you.

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I hate how everybody stops the thread when Sunil has to ponder something deep, like bailing on a lunch date. (of course, I can finally say the word "blender" without shaking, so that's nice.)

• However* other people need support from time to time as well.

I didn't make a point of mentioning it yesterday, so that's my fault, but, you know? Culture or no culture, Sunil, you will do your future family a real disservice if you get married without being able to stand up for your wife and yourself. My dad didn't and it mortally damaged his marriage. My mother is still pissed about it and Grandma has apologized...over twenty years later, but Indians don't corner the market on family suckitude. I might not be a Hindu, but I know that much. And I think you are looking for some magical way to please everyone that doesn't exist anymore now than the other twenty times Bitches came to a hugpile halt for you. (puts on flameproof suit)

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(I'm quietly amused that erika's post has now stopped the thread for almost an hour. No opinion on the actual substance of the post though, because confrontation makes me want to run to the next room, going "la la la la")

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Ok. I’m going to step in and say something and hopefully open the thread back up.

All of us – every last one of us in this thread and on this board with any sort of regularity - have asked for support from our fellow Buffistas. And we have all received it in one form or another. Be it brackets or care packages or words of encouragement or sage advice or tough love. The majority of us have asked for support on the same issue numerous times. Whether it is hair pats, reassurance, slaying of the body demons, advice on the same issue, or just general bitching about one particular aspect of our lives. Because we are a supportive group, we give the support when asked for. Because we are a willful group, we don’t give it where we don’t want to. There is lots of support to give and those who want to will give it. And those who don’t want to won’t. But I, personally, don’t think it’s fair to tell someone they are asking for too much from the group and that they are using up all of the support. I wouldn’t want anyone second-guessing whether or not they can ask for some support from their community. I don’t think that’s what we’re about.

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