What happened?
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askye - Dec 06, 2008 12:51:55 pm PST #3501 of 10000
Thrive to spite them
vw bug - Dec 06, 2008 12:53:58 pm PST #3502 of 10000
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You know me. I'm difficult to handle. He's not sure he can handle it. Needs some time to think. So, in the meantime, I'm on probation.
That's the very mean part of me talking. It's really not that bad...I guess. He loves me, doesn't know what to do, thinks we should step back.
Glamcookie - Dec 06, 2008 12:55:12 pm PST #3503 of 10000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
I'm sorry, vw. I hope he quickly realizes how much he misses the wonderfulness of you.
vw bug - Dec 06, 2008 12:56:45 pm PST #3504 of 10000
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I'm not sure I want him to figure that out. I am who I am, you know? I've got good stuff, and I've got bad stuff, and I fight to make the most of my life.
But, apparently, I'm not fighting hard enough to better my life. I'm not sure what to say to that, you know?
askye - Dec 06, 2008 12:57:44 pm PST #3505 of 10000
Thrive to spite them
He said you aren't fighting hard enough to better your life?
That deosn't make sense.
amych - Dec 06, 2008 12:58:14 pm PST #3506 of 10000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?
{{{{vw}}}}
vw bug - Dec 06, 2008 12:58:29 pm PST #3507 of 10000
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Also, he's afraid we will never be able to contribute equally to the finances of the relationship, which, ok. Maybe not. Certainly not right now, but that doesn't mean that won't change in 5 months, 22 days, and 15 hours.
I'm just so. Hurt. I'm just so hurt.
WindSparrow - Dec 06, 2008 1:01:07 pm PST #3508 of 10000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Oh, {{{vw}}} that sucks. Harvey is purring his little heart out at the computer screen for you.
It's weird its like I'm a total stranger. Which I guess I basically am since I see her and the rest of my family like once a year these days, but i weak up in cold sweats.
One of the things I learned at a professional conference (for caregivers) presentation on Alzheimer's, is that no matter what other cognitive function they lose, an Alzheimer's patient will continue to have a sense of humor and continue to appreciate music (particularly the music of their youth) throughout the course of the disease. So, even if your Grandmother forgets how to say your name, or that she knows you - you can still connect with her in those ways.
Glamcookie - Dec 06, 2008 1:01:22 pm PST #3509 of 10000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
I'm sorry, vw. It sounds like you have a very good attitude about an unpleasant situation. {{{}}}
vw bug - Dec 06, 2008 1:06:50 pm PST #3510 of 10000
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It's ok. It was bound to happen. I seriously pissed off some god in a past life.