Drusilla ,'Conversations with Dead People'
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
I'm not sure I want him to figure that out. I am who I am, you know? I've got good stuff, and I've got bad stuff, and I fight to make the most of my life.
But, apparently, I'm not fighting hard enough to better my life. I'm not sure what to say to that, you know?
He said you aren't fighting hard enough to better your life?
That deosn't make sense.
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Also, he's afraid we will never be able to contribute equally to the finances of the relationship, which, ok. Maybe not. Certainly not right now, but that doesn't mean that won't change in 5 months, 22 days, and 15 hours.
I'm just so. Hurt. I'm just so hurt.
Oh, {{{vw}}} that sucks. Harvey is purring his little heart out at the computer screen for you.
It's weird its like I'm a total stranger. Which I guess I basically am since I see her and the rest of my family like once a year these days, but i weak up in cold sweats.
One of the things I learned at a professional conference (for caregivers) presentation on Alzheimer's, is that no matter what other cognitive function they lose, an Alzheimer's patient will continue to have a sense of humor and continue to appreciate music (particularly the music of their youth) throughout the course of the disease. So, even if your Grandmother forgets how to say your name, or that she knows you - you can still connect with her in those ways.
I'm sorry, vw. It sounds like you have a very good attitude about an unpleasant situation. {{{}}}
It's ok. It was bound to happen. I seriously pissed off some god in a past life.
(((((vw))))) I'm so sorry. You do work so very hard, and I hope he realizes that sooner rather than later.
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It's hard. I hope you both find your way through.
Not so sure it was bound to happen, but the break was good for Matt and I . He has regrets, but for me - I sort of refound myself and knew what I wanted when we did get back together.
However, the $$ issue pings me big time. Maybe because some fields will never make the money that others make. ( oh lets say librarian vs High Level Tech) I will not make more or even close to what Matt makes. I contribute in other ways. and quite frankly , I'm not so sure you should pick a partner based on income -- as you said anyone can change.