What should I do, then? Send her a gift? Sacrifice? … Unholy fruit basket?

Angel ,'Just Rewards (2)'


Natter 61*  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


megan walker - Nov 05, 2008 9:48:11 am PST #9488 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

And that is not something I saw from here.

There were basically two that I saw over and over. One between two women friends chatting (that sounded particularly fake) and one with an older couple. Both stressed the "don't treat people differently, don't eliminate rights" argument.

But, as you mention, many people don't get the difference between domestic partnership rights and marriage rights. Plus, with the Supreme Court ruling only in May, I think it's hard to see the issue as one of depriving people of rights. It's too new.

I think the No side needed to make more of an effort to reassure people that a No would not result in radical change. Instead of the older married couple asking people not to treat their children differently, I would have loved to see them talk about how their marriage wasn't threatened by same-sex marriage.

The only argument I've ever seen convince conservative friends is actually an economic/self-interest one. That is, in general, public policy supports marriage because it benefits society to have stable relationships and stable families. Having more people married can only further this agenda.


tommyrot - Nov 05, 2008 9:49:57 am PST #9489 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Voting on Prop 8, broken down by age group:

Vote by Age
            Yes    No
18-29 (20%)  39    61
30-44 (28%)  55    45
45-64 (36%)  54    46
65+   (15%)  61    39 

kos sez:

That's why the Mormon Church and their bigoted allies are so desperate in this fight. Young people aren't afraid of the gays. They're on the losing side of history.

And I'm not just ready for this fight, I'm eager for it.

Proposition 8


tommyrot - Nov 05, 2008 9:52:04 am PST #9490 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

The only argument I've ever seen convince conservative friends is actually an economic/self-interest one. That is, in general, public policy supports marriage because it benefits society to have stable relationships and stable families. Having more people married can only further this agenda.

The Gay Agenda is The Straight Agenda? Oh Noez!!


msbelle - Nov 05, 2008 9:53:24 am PST #9491 of 10001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I wonder which state will be the first to have movement to remove the word marriage from government processes?

I'd love for it to be NY - "Legal Union" license has a nice ring to it.


Tom Scola - Nov 05, 2008 9:56:45 am PST #9492 of 10001
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

The NYT is doing another print run of today's paper: [link]


Allyson - Nov 05, 2008 10:11:50 am PST #9493 of 10001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Just got a call from a scientist at the Paris Observatory congratulating me on my new president. His toddler was yelling OBAMA! in the background, and he said she definitely needed to go to bed was very excited about OBAMA!, though she didn't really understand what it was all about.

He said all the scientists were very relieved and hopeful.


erikaj - Nov 05, 2008 10:15:04 am PST #9494 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!

The starburst thing is from a Rich Lowry Palin column, that, thanks to Keith, makes me read "Rich Lowry" and think "Ew...that perv!" Love America...hate Arizona. But that's nothing new.


Trudy Booth - Nov 05, 2008 10:16:26 am PST #9495 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Sometimes, its worth reading the Salon letters:

Yeah, once the Ewoks have stopped dancing they've got to get down to the business of goverment. But, y'know, it's not been a day yet, so for now: yub nub and fuck you.


msbelle - Nov 05, 2008 10:17:24 am PST #9496 of 10001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

nytimes.com has a great graphic on the front page that goes through several screens showing how things changed from 2004. What is going on in Arkansas that they are the biggest shift to voting more Republican?


Barb - Nov 05, 2008 10:18:55 am PST #9497 of 10001
“Not dead yet!”

Well, that didn't take long. Abby was called a terrorist lover at school today.