All kinds of ~ma to you, bonny.

Strength and peace to you, bonny.

Exactly. Like amych was saying eariler--she's bi, but monogamous. I'm more like Laga, though. I don't have any particular drive to date other men (I'm kind of smitten with the one I have already, and he fills my desire for being with guys), but I've really missed other women when I've been in het mono relationships.

One of my good girlfriends scans exactly like this, but unfortunately, her fiancée would view being with a girl as cheating. She loves him, but sometimes she just wants to be with a woman so badly. I wish her fiancée could switch over to ND’s view. *le sigh*

Heh. When I was a teenager I used to think I was poly, but it turns out I was just reading too much Heinlein.

Oh, Jess! COMM!

Heinlein also had me half-assed convinced for years that I must secretly want to sleep with my father, since everything else sexy in his books sounded A-OK for me, which caused no small amount of Elektra-fied teenage angst. But then I discovered logical thought, eyerolled Freud, and concluded that Heinlein was not, in fact, a feminist, but rather a horny old crypto-chauvinst.

And I felt a lot better.

Coffee with allergy pills:

BTW, I will be in NYC for sure Nov. 15-18th for the ginormous NCTE conference. Kristin, I am assuming your mean school is NOT letting you go?

Anyhoo, I would love to meet up with people, probably in the evening after the seminars are over.

E-me at profile addy!

Erin, you must not have seen my posts a few weeks back to you. Yeah, the school said no. Hope you have fun, though!

I have more to respond to but need to be on my laptop and not the crackberry in order to do so.

Aw, I did miss those! I am bummed; we could have caused some serious damage!

One of my good girlfriends scans exactly like this, but unfortunately, her fiancée would view being with a girl as cheating. She loves him, but sometimes she just wants to be with a woman so badly. I wish her fiancée could switch over to ND’s view. *le sigh*

what kind of straight guy won't consider a girl girl boy threesome? what is the world coming to??!?!

My ex-husband, for one. One of the reasons that the marriage couldn't have worked without damage on both sides.

what kind of straight guy won't consider a girl girl boy threesome?

The insecure kind. Plus, this is kind of the worst stance to try to meet girls from. "My boy friend will be OK with it if he can join in." These kind of couples outnumber girls to the extent that the single-bi-female is often referred to as The Holy Grail. It's another reason I despair of dating right now.

Thanks Chikat and Susan. Much appreciated.