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One of my good girlfriends scans exactly like this, but unfortunately, her fiancée would view being with a girl as cheating. She loves him, but sometimes she just wants to be with a woman so badly. I wish her fiancée could switch over to ND’s view. *le sigh*
what kind of straight guy won't consider a girl girl boy threesome? what is the world coming to??!?!
My ex-husband, for one. One of the reasons that the marriage couldn't have worked without damage on both sides.
what kind of straight guy won't consider a girl girl boy threesome?
The insecure kind. Plus, this is kind of the worst stance to try to meet girls from. "My boy friend will be OK with it if he can join in." These kind of couples outnumber girls to the extent that the single-bi-female is often referred to as The Holy Grail. It's another reason I despair of dating right now.
Thanks Chikat and Susan. Much appreciated.
X-posty with Kristin: some guys aren't insecure, just very very monogamous. The idea of the one they love being with someone else is unacceptable to them.
what kind of straight guy won't consider a girl girl boy threesome?
He's not very sexual. Which is the weakest part of their relationship, IMHO, because she is extremely sexual. I like him, I think he's a good match for her in many ways, but...I have reservations about the long-term viability of their relationship on this level.
Not, I hasten to add, because I see sex as the end-all and be-all of a relationship, but because I know when one person attaches importance to a thing as part of their general life satisfaction and happiness and health, and the other person doesn't or can't, it can lead to frustration and imbalance. Whether this thing be sexual fulfillment, or religious faith, or...um...cilantro.
He's not very sexual. Which is the weakest part of their relationship, IMHO, because she is extremely sexual. I like him, I think he's a good match for her in many ways, but...I have reservations about the long-term viability of their relationship on this level.Wow, that's eerie. I had this exact conversation with someone before I got married. Also, DexH was definitely mainly very monogamous rather than insecure.
Anyway. In the past.
Laga, did you see Fay's question to you? I'm sure you were using the plural/general "you," right?
Please tell me no marriage was ever broken up by cilantro. I left onions out of my cooking for years just to make my sister happy.
I have the sudden urge to make tacos with chopped onions and cilantro.
Totally missed this:
...this wasn't addressed to me, was it?
no, the general "you". I'd had the idea floating around in my head since the first time I saw someone say something like, "I like the idea of a poly relationship but I don't think I could do it." It took a couple of glasses of Pinot Noir for me to squeeze out the post.
Please tell me no marriage was ever broken up by cilantro.
Sorry, babe, a Google search finds that 3/5 American marriages are adversely impacted by a couple's differing views on cilantro.
Republican legislators are currently pursuing the passing of a bill that "outlaws that pernicious herb, cilantro, as being basically inimical to the family values our country hold dear" reports Ida Fo-Journalistte in the Washington Post.