((Suzi))
((Jilli)) the work stuff sucks.
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((Suzi))
((Jilli)) the work stuff sucks.
Yeah, but you've written papers recently. The last paper I wrote was in, 1998. Possibly 1999. But definitely not in the 21st century. So you can see why I'm a little worried.
You're gonna do fine. And you've got lots of us to help if you hit snags.
but without the fun of fighting zombies.zombie~maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
In my head, poly = having multiple close, loving, sexual relationships.
or at least, the potential for the relationship to be sexual, in my mind. Otherwise, I'm poly with half of the buffistas.
Hey, I need help! This is kinda up Hec's alley, but I'll take advice from anyone.
I'm going to a Halloween party tomorrow night, and I want to do my hair in a flapper-style. I have the bob, but I want to find out how to do, I think they are called "marcelled" waves. Mostly I have seen pix of black flappers with the marcelling, but is it a style peculiar to African-American hair, or can I reproduce the look with product and pins?
I'm wearing a kind of superslutty faux-flapper outfit -- slip, lace bra, garters, stockings, flask, cupid's bow mouth, but I want the hair to look right.
I know it's not peculiar to African-American hair because I've got a non-African American friend who had marcelled waves but I think she had a perm. (Well, I'm sure she did because her natural hair is straight.)
My hair is really straight, too, but I was hoping that with some of those long-ass grandma clip thingies and a shitload of product, I could approximate the marcelled look.
I'm looking around, but I think I'm looking at the wrong stuff.
See, I think part of the issue here is that people are trying to define Poly based on outward actions. By these definitions if a person with a poly orientation is not dating anyone, then they are suddently not poly. For poly folks it's an orientation. If someone who is bi-sexual is dating the opposite sex, they don't suddenly cease being bi-sexual. If a heterosexual is currently not dating they don't cease being heterosexual.
Jilli, after the meeting I just had, I'm ready to join you in that pillow fort.
Now I know why I was looking at apartments in Budapest the other day. I may just not come back.
wow ... I post one tongue-in-cheek response to Trudy and spark a bunch of thoughtful, insightful, personally revealing posts. I'm not sure if I should muzzle my humor or what.