Early: You folks are all insane. Simon: Well, my sister's a ship. We had a complicated childhood.

'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 38: Well, This Is Just...Neat.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Cass - Nov 02, 2007 11:27:34 am PDT #2205 of 10002
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

but without the fun of fighting zombies.
zombie~maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa


Vortex - Nov 02, 2007 12:15:47 pm PDT #2206 of 10002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

In my head, poly = having multiple close, loving, sexual relationships.

or at least, the potential for the relationship to be sexual, in my mind. Otherwise, I'm poly with half of the buffistas.


Strix - Nov 02, 2007 12:21:54 pm PDT #2207 of 10002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Hey, I need help! This is kinda up Hec's alley, but I'll take advice from anyone.

I'm going to a Halloween party tomorrow night, and I want to do my hair in a flapper-style. I have the bob, but I want to find out how to do, I think they are called "marcelled" waves. Mostly I have seen pix of black flappers with the marcelling, but is it a style peculiar to African-American hair, or can I reproduce the look with product and pins?

I'm wearing a kind of superslutty faux-flapper outfit -- slip, lace bra, garters, stockings, flask, cupid's bow mouth, but I want the hair to look right.


sumi - Nov 02, 2007 12:23:52 pm PDT #2208 of 10002
Art Crawl!!!

I know it's not peculiar to African-American hair because I've got a non-African American friend who had marcelled waves but I think she had a perm. (Well, I'm sure she did because her natural hair is straight.)


Strix - Nov 02, 2007 12:32:25 pm PDT #2209 of 10002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

My hair is really straight, too, but I was hoping that with some of those long-ass grandma clip thingies and a shitload of product, I could approximate the marcelled look.

I'm looking around, but I think I'm looking at the wrong stuff.


NoiseDesign - Nov 02, 2007 12:34:23 pm PDT #2210 of 10002
Our wings are not tired

See, I think part of the issue here is that people are trying to define Poly based on outward actions. By these definitions if a person with a poly orientation is not dating anyone, then they are suddently not poly. For poly folks it's an orientation. If someone who is bi-sexual is dating the opposite sex, they don't suddenly cease being bi-sexual. If a heterosexual is currently not dating they don't cease being heterosexual.


Daisy Jane - Nov 02, 2007 12:37:37 pm PDT #2211 of 10002
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

Jilli, after the meeting I just had, I'm ready to join you in that pillow fort.

Now I know why I was looking at apartments in Budapest the other day. I may just not come back.


Toddson - Nov 02, 2007 12:39:36 pm PDT #2212 of 10002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

wow ... I post one tongue-in-cheek response to Trudy and spark a bunch of thoughtful, insightful, personally revealing posts. I'm not sure if I should muzzle my humor or what.


brenda m - Nov 02, 2007 12:39:37 pm PDT #2213 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I have the bob, but I want to find out how to do, I think they are called "marcelled" waves. Mostly I have seen pix of black flappers with the marcelling, but is it a style peculiar to African-American hair, or can I reproduce the look with product and pins?

Same thing as finger waves? I know Hec's posted instructions for those before.


Trudy Booth - Nov 02, 2007 12:43:08 pm PDT #2214 of 10002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

See, I think part of the issue here is that people are trying to define Poly based on outward actions...

I thought the discussion was more along the lines of trying to define poly relationships, not poly people.