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GO ROBIN!! Yay for home-owning!

Okay, I'm going to be mememe for a second. And tacky. If you don't want to read me bitching about my ex-husband, please feel free to skip.

I hosted a couple MSP friends last night - C & B - as they're on their way to C's cousin's wedding. We had a great time, going out to dinner and the bars and hanging out. C especially was a good friend to both Z & me - he'd always come hang out & drink and watch videos and just generally be cool. After the split, he maintained friendships with both of us - not a problem. He's been moving away from Z, though, because Z is apparently becoming a giant jackhole, the kind that can't be happy for a friend unless there's something in it for him. So.

In the course of hanging out last night, I was told 3 things:

1) Z & K (Z's mistress while he was married to me) still maintain that they didn't do anything until after the divorce. This is, bluntly, bullshit, and we all know it.

2) Apparently, K was here for some conference a few months ago, and Z was going to come with her and see if he could visit with me while he was here.

3) When I was in MSP last month, he was bitching to a lot of people, saying, "what, I can't see her? Why can't I see her? I'm barred from seeing her?"

Just... OH MY GOD. FUCK. YOU. You piece of immature selfish shit. You soul-destroying, morally bankrupt ASSHOLE.

Ahem. Vented. Thank you.

The good thing is that C & B got to see my awesome apartment and meet my awesome friends and my awesome boyfriend and get a sense of my awesome, Z-free life. It is good.

Everytime I think Z can't get more clueless and jackholish, he manages to do so. What is up with that man?

I'm glad, though, that you are in such a better place now.

juliana, I've always been impressed by how quickly and decisively you made the move when you finally decided that enough was enough.

Stephanie and connie, thank you. The move was really the best idea ever, even though I felt like I had no choice in the matter. Just... GAH. I can't believe I married that piece of shit.

There were way too many comments I wanted to make about Z,but I decided that I 'll just shake my head and slap a big d'oh on his forehead. As for you Ms. J, I'll just say you might have made a mistake, but so do we all. You are recovering beautifully.

y'know, I'm not sure I believe in actual karma, but I do believe that people who resemble giant dildos will eventually get fucked in the end.

puts on "what Beth, Connie, and Stephanie Said" t-shirt

Although, I'll add one teeny tiny bit of a differing opinion: I don't think marrying Z was a mistake, per se. I think that it was an even along your path in life that eventually led you to a fork that made way for you to move to SF.

If that makes any kind of sense at all.

What up, Bitches? How's everybody?

I turn to you in my time of need. I've got my fannish cousin here, and we're inhaling vids. I could have sworn that I have "Superstar," the infamously awesome Faith vid, but I can't find it and I am bereft. Can anyone hook me up with a link? Is it still out there somewhere? I can't even remember who made it, woe.

If you don't want to post it here, hit me at my profile addy. And thanks.

Although, I'll add one teeny tiny bit of a differing opinion: I don't think marrying Z was a mistake, per se. I think that it was an even along your path in life that eventually led you to a fork that made way for you to move to SF.

nods vigorously

Yes. It wasn't a mistake, it was a necessary stop, which led you to where you needed to end up.

I think I have a wierd view of mistakes - as you can't grow without them . So there isn't much point in regretting them. But some you need to acknowledge and put on the shelf so you don't repeat them. I can think of a number of things that I have done that I don't wish to repeat - but since they all lead me to who/ where I am today I can't regret them