Stephanie and connie, thank you. The move was really the best idea ever, even though I felt like I had no choice in the matter. Just... GAH. I can't believe I married that piece of shit.
I've got two words that are going to make all the pain go away. Miniature Golf.
Mayor ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'
Spike's Bitches 36: Did I Sully Our Good Name?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
juliana - Jun 29, 2007 8:26:26 am PDT #4816 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
beth b - Jun 29, 2007 8:35:28 am PDT #4817 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
There were way too many comments I wanted to make about Z,but I decided that I 'll just shake my head and slap a big d'oh on his forehead. As for you Ms. J, I'll just say you might have made a mistake, but so do we all. You are recovering beautifully.
Daisy Jane - Jun 29, 2007 8:40:40 am PDT #4818 of 10001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
y'know, I'm not sure I believe in actual karma, but I do believe that people who resemble giant dildos will eventually get fucked in the end.
Aims - Jun 29, 2007 8:47:39 am PDT #4819 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
puts on "what Beth, Connie, and Stephanie Said" t-shirt
Although, I'll add one teeny tiny bit of a differing opinion: I don't think marrying Z was a mistake, per se. I think that it was an even along your path in life that eventually led you to a fork that made way for you to move to SF.
If that makes any kind of sense at all.
smonster - Jun 29, 2007 8:49:02 am PDT #4820 of 10001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
What up, Bitches? How's everybody?
I turn to you in my time of need. I've got my fannish cousin here, and we're inhaling vids. I could have sworn that I have "Superstar," the infamously awesome Faith vid, but I can't find it and I am bereft. Can anyone hook me up with a link? Is it still out there somewhere? I can't even remember who made it, woe.
If you don't want to post it here, hit me at my profile addy. And thanks.
Atropa - Jun 29, 2007 8:51:16 am PDT #4821 of 10001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
Although, I'll add one teeny tiny bit of a differing opinion: I don't think marrying Z was a mistake, per se. I think that it was an even along your path in life that eventually led you to a fork that made way for you to move to SF.
nods vigorously
Yes. It wasn't a mistake, it was a necessary stop, which led you to where you needed to end up.
beth b - Jun 29, 2007 9:04:42 am PDT #4822 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
I think I have a wierd view of mistakes - as you can't grow without them . So there isn't much point in regretting them. But some you need to acknowledge and put on the shelf so you don't repeat them. I can think of a number of things that I have done that I don't wish to repeat - but since they all lead me to who/ where I am today I can't regret them
juliana - Jun 29, 2007 9:10:21 am PDT #4823 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
Again, thank you, and y'all have good points. I still look at my past self and go, "WTF, self?" But, I did learn a lot about boundaries and what I want and what I'll put up with. I just wish I hadn't let him beat my esteem down so far. That's what I regret.
Well, that, and not kicking him in the head.
smonster - Jun 29, 2007 9:20:10 am PDT #4824 of 10001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
re: vid - got it...
thanks askye!
askye - Jun 29, 2007 9:21:15 am PDT #4825 of 10001
Thrive to spite them
Your welcome!