There were way too many comments I wanted to make about Z,but I decided that I 'll just shake my head and slap a big d'oh on his forehead. As for you Ms. J, I'll just say you might have made a mistake, but so do we all. You are recovering beautifully.
Hmm. It's sounds like the finest party I can imagine getting paid to go to.
Mal ,'Shindig'
Spike's Bitches 36: Did I Sully Our Good Name?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
beth b - Jun 29, 2007 8:35:28 am PDT #4817 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
Daisy Jane - Jun 29, 2007 8:40:40 am PDT #4818 of 10001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
y'know, I'm not sure I believe in actual karma, but I do believe that people who resemble giant dildos will eventually get fucked in the end.
Aims - Jun 29, 2007 8:47:39 am PDT #4819 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
puts on "what Beth, Connie, and Stephanie Said" t-shirt
Although, I'll add one teeny tiny bit of a differing opinion: I don't think marrying Z was a mistake, per se. I think that it was an even along your path in life that eventually led you to a fork that made way for you to move to SF.
If that makes any kind of sense at all.
smonster - Jun 29, 2007 8:49:02 am PDT #4820 of 10001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
What up, Bitches? How's everybody?
I turn to you in my time of need. I've got my fannish cousin here, and we're inhaling vids. I could have sworn that I have "Superstar," the infamously awesome Faith vid, but I can't find it and I am bereft. Can anyone hook me up with a link? Is it still out there somewhere? I can't even remember who made it, woe.
If you don't want to post it here, hit me at my profile addy. And thanks.
Atropa - Jun 29, 2007 8:51:16 am PDT #4821 of 10001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
Although, I'll add one teeny tiny bit of a differing opinion: I don't think marrying Z was a mistake, per se. I think that it was an even along your path in life that eventually led you to a fork that made way for you to move to SF.
nods vigorously
Yes. It wasn't a mistake, it was a necessary stop, which led you to where you needed to end up.
beth b - Jun 29, 2007 9:04:42 am PDT #4822 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
I think I have a wierd view of mistakes - as you can't grow without them . So there isn't much point in regretting them. But some you need to acknowledge and put on the shelf so you don't repeat them. I can think of a number of things that I have done that I don't wish to repeat - but since they all lead me to who/ where I am today I can't regret them
juliana - Jun 29, 2007 9:10:21 am PDT #4823 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
Again, thank you, and y'all have good points. I still look at my past self and go, "WTF, self?" But, I did learn a lot about boundaries and what I want and what I'll put up with. I just wish I hadn't let him beat my esteem down so far. That's what I regret.
Well, that, and not kicking him in the head.
smonster - Jun 29, 2007 9:20:10 am PDT #4824 of 10001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
re: vid - got it...
thanks askye!
askye - Jun 29, 2007 9:21:15 am PDT #4825 of 10001
Thrive to spite them
Your welcome!
JZ - Jun 29, 2007 9:22:23 am PDT #4826 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
Aw, juliana. I think about the day you arrived, and Hec and Deb and I helping get stuff into your place and pump up the Aerobed Lee lent you, and how you were all broken and lost and unable to imagine the shape of your life without Z, and then I think about the entire world you've made for yourself since then, and I'm just stunned at your strength and resilience and capacity for joy, and I feel so privileged to know you.