juliana, I've always been impressed by how quickly and decisively you made the move when you finally decided that enough was enough.

Stephanie and connie, thank you. The move was really the best idea ever, even though I felt like I had no choice in the matter. Just... GAH. I can't believe I married that piece of shit.

There were way too many comments I wanted to make about Z,but I decided that I 'll just shake my head and slap a big d'oh on his forehead. As for you Ms. J, I'll just say you might have made a mistake, but so do we all. You are recovering beautifully.

y'know, I'm not sure I believe in actual karma, but I do believe that people who resemble giant dildos will eventually get fucked in the end.

puts on "what Beth, Connie, and Stephanie Said" t-shirt

Although, I'll add one teeny tiny bit of a differing opinion: I don't think marrying Z was a mistake, per se. I think that it was an even along your path in life that eventually led you to a fork that made way for you to move to SF.

If that makes any kind of sense at all.

What up, Bitches? How's everybody?

I turn to you in my time of need. I've got my fannish cousin here, and we're inhaling vids. I could have sworn that I have "Superstar," the infamously awesome Faith vid, but I can't find it and I am bereft. Can anyone hook me up with a link? Is it still out there somewhere? I can't even remember who made it, woe.

If you don't want to post it here, hit me at my profile addy. And thanks.

Although, I'll add one teeny tiny bit of a differing opinion: I don't think marrying Z was a mistake, per se. I think that it was an even along your path in life that eventually led you to a fork that made way for you to move to SF.

nods vigorously

Yes. It wasn't a mistake, it was a necessary stop, which led you to where you needed to end up.

I think I have a wierd view of mistakes - as you can't grow without them . So there isn't much point in regretting them. But some you need to acknowledge and put on the shelf so you don't repeat them. I can think of a number of things that I have done that I don't wish to repeat - but since they all lead me to who/ where I am today I can't regret them

Again, thank you, and y'all have good points. I still look at my past self and go, "WTF, self?" But, I did learn a lot about boundaries and what I want and what I'll put up with. I just wish I hadn't let him beat my esteem down so far. That's what I regret.

Well, that, and not kicking him in the head.

re: vid - got it...

thanks askye!