Even your wardrobe sees how unfair this all is.
Anya Christina Emmanuella Jenkins. Twenty years old. Born on the fourth of July — and don't think there weren't jokes about that my whole life, mister, 'cause there were. 'Who's our little patriot?' they'd say, when I was younger and therefore smaller and shorter than I am now.
Anya ,'Potential'
Spike's Bitches 36: Did I Sully Our Good Name?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
brenda m - Jun 29, 2007 6:54:56 am PDT #4810 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
vw bug - Jun 29, 2007 6:55:35 am PDT #4811 of 10001
Mostly lurking...
DJ, I think some shopping therapy is definitely in order.
I completely agree!
Also {{{DJ}}}
sj - Jun 29, 2007 7:38:33 am PDT #4812 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
{{{DJ}}} Definitely take some time for shopping therapy.
juliana - Jun 29, 2007 7:59:04 am PDT #4813 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
{{{{DJ}}}}
GO ROBIN!! Yay for home-owning!
Okay, I'm going to be mememe for a second. And tacky. If you don't want to read me bitching about my ex-husband, please feel free to skip.
I hosted a couple MSP friends last night - C & B - as they're on their way to C's cousin's wedding. We had a great time, going out to dinner and the bars and hanging out. C especially was a good friend to both Z & me - he'd always come hang out & drink and watch videos and just generally be cool. After the split, he maintained friendships with both of us - not a problem. He's been moving away from Z, though, because Z is apparently becoming a giant jackhole, the kind that can't be happy for a friend unless there's something in it for him. So.
In the course of hanging out last night, I was told 3 things:
1) Z & K (Z's mistress while he was married to me) still maintain that they didn't do anything until after the divorce. This is, bluntly, bullshit, and we all know it.
2) Apparently, K was here for some conference a few months ago, and Z was going to come with her and see if he could visit with me while he was here.
3) When I was in MSP last month, he was bitching to a lot of people, saying, "what, I can't see her? Why can't I see her? I'm barred from seeing her?"
Just... OH MY GOD. FUCK. YOU. You piece of immature selfish shit. You soul-destroying, morally bankrupt ASSHOLE.
Ahem. Vented. Thank you.
The good thing is that C & B got to see my awesome apartment and meet my awesome friends and my awesome boyfriend and get a sense of my awesome, Z-free life. It is good.
Stephanie - Jun 29, 2007 8:02:05 am PDT #4814 of 10001
Trust my rage
Everytime I think Z can't get more clueless and jackholish, he manages to do so. What is up with that man?
I'm glad, though, that you are in such a better place now.
Connie Neil - Jun 29, 2007 8:03:43 am PDT #4815 of 10001
brillig
juliana, I've always been impressed by how quickly and decisively you made the move when you finally decided that enough was enough.
juliana - Jun 29, 2007 8:26:26 am PDT #4816 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
Stephanie and connie, thank you. The move was really the best idea ever, even though I felt like I had no choice in the matter. Just... GAH. I can't believe I married that piece of shit.
beth b - Jun 29, 2007 8:35:28 am PDT #4817 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
There were way too many comments I wanted to make about Z,but I decided that I 'll just shake my head and slap a big d'oh on his forehead. As for you Ms. J, I'll just say you might have made a mistake, but so do we all. You are recovering beautifully.
Daisy Jane - Jun 29, 2007 8:40:40 am PDT #4818 of 10001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
y'know, I'm not sure I believe in actual karma, but I do believe that people who resemble giant dildos will eventually get fucked in the end.
Aims - Jun 29, 2007 8:47:39 am PDT #4819 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
puts on "what Beth, Connie, and Stephanie Said" t-shirt
Although, I'll add one teeny tiny bit of a differing opinion: I don't think marrying Z was a mistake, per se. I think that it was an even along your path in life that eventually led you to a fork that made way for you to move to SF.
If that makes any kind of sense at all.